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i love him


Question Posted Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:44 pm

i live in pennsylvania and my cousin lives in arizona. she introduced me to her friend online and we have been talking to each other for a half a year now and he asked me out 4 months ago and we talk online everyday and on the phone once a week. things are getting pretty serious...but i have never seen him in person! he is really hott and has a six pack and stuff...why would he want me who he never sees instead of all these other girls who he can? all these girls IM me all the time calling me names and saying to dump him cause our relationship is stupid and that they deserve him because they see him everyday. what should i do? do you think he is being true?

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Preppymamma answered Thursday May 26 2005, 9:38 pm:
I think if you really like him stay with him. He wouldnt put that much trouble into yalls relationship if he didnt want you. He is being true to you- as true as he can be for living so far away.

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charmed3fanatic answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 9:41 pm:
Don't listen to them hunny! they are just jealous because you have him and they want him.. therefore.. they are trying to get you too to break up so they can have him for themselves! but be careful.. long distant relationships are hard!! dont' worry you beable to see him soon!

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kamikazecb answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 8:25 pm:
There are girls telling you that they want him and you should dump him, so they definitly arn't getting any from him. He is being true to you. I think he cares a lot, and is probably feeling the same way. He probably really wants to meet you also and wishes he could see you everyday. You need to decide if you want a long distance relationship and your happy the way things are or you'd rather not have the relationship. You have to decide that on your own. Good Luck!

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Michele answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 8:16 pm:
There is more to love that how a person looks. Some of the stongest relationships and people very much in love, have to be apart. And they remain true to each other. NOw that is no guarantee that he is true to you. But if you have asked, and he says he is, then until you are confronted with some evidence that he actually is, I would give him the benefit of the doubt. The question is, how do you feel about him. Are you willing to wait, are you not cheating, are you satisfied with a long distance relationship. It is not easy. Even for adults. Do you two have plans for the future? Do you have plans to meet and get together? If you do, and that is what you want, then I would plan accordingly. Remember this, however, there are no guarantees in love, especially at your ages. If you are happy with the online long distance relationship than keep it, if you meet someone in your town that you grow to like, well, that is life. What can you do. Just be honest, and hopefully he will be honest too.
Michele

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pinkbananas451 answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 8:11 pm:
you can never be sure about guys but you really havent met in person and the pics he has sent could be fake...but i could be wrong...dont listen to those girls they are jerks!!

hope i helped

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MissAdvice3 answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:51 pm:
Okay.. well.. it depends if you really love him! but long relationships can be very difficult and hard. You dont ever know what is REALLY going on at thier school and he could be cheating on you.. maybe you could talk to him about it and maybe just decide to be friends! That pretty much always works out!

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