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What do you do when you keep thinking about/wanting to talk to an old friend who you don't talk to anymore due to having different lifes, due to just time passing by, due to a love that went nowhere. I would just email this old friend but I don't. I don't know why that is either. During my childenhood I knew this old friend very well and I miss that. So whats your advice my on line friend?
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Dear Friend ~
Just because the love didn't amount to a relationship between you both, doesn't mean that you can't or shouldn't still be in contact with each other.
If you are thinking about this person, I would tell them so. I would certainly email them and see how they are doing.
As we get older, and our lives get busier, it seems easier and easier to let life "get in the way" of doing really important things. I think contacting your old friend/flame is a good thing to do.
Maybe you are thinking about this person because you don't feel like you had real closure at the end of your romantic relationship...or perhaps their is a mile distance and you cannot see each other as often as you wish.
Reach out, the worst that can happen is that they don't talk to you...but that's what is going on now!
Take the chance.
~Teri ]
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