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Mom is sooo ANNOYING
Five minutes ago, I was trying to talk to my aunt and all of a sudden, my mom bursts in our convo and starts yelling at me asking "Why didn't you ask me!??!" "Don't talk to me like that!" She didn't give me a chance to talk so she kept yelling and so I yelled back and then she blamed me for things I didn't do! She totally humiliated me infront of my aunt! This always happens! What do I do to prevent this..and What can I do about the situation now? If you tell me to say sorry to my stupid-ass mom, I'll give you a 1. It seems like she wants attention, but whatever..help if you can..all 5's for reasonable answers.
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my mom can be a pain in the ass too, but it doesn't sound like your mom respects you to much, talk to your aunt about maybe staying with her for a while until your mom can start to care about you the way a mother should
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I think that the best answer for you is to just TRY to talk to your mom....she will listen!Tell her you dont feel as comfortable talking to her about things..and it is nothing personal..
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Say sorry to your stupid ass mom.
Next time she does it, dont say a word. Slowly walk up to her, and when she just stares at you while screaming, SLAP HER!
WOoo! SHe'll never see it coming.
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Maybe your mom has some issues with your aunt? Most likely your mom is jelous that you talk to your aunt about stuff and not her. Try talking to your mom, you dont have to apologize at all if you didnt do anything wrong. Is your mom going through stuff at wokr or anything? If you find out if somethings wrong and if you want to help even though shes being a " stupid - a*s mom" maybe get her flowers or something and if she doesnt apreciate it then thats messed up. Tell me how it goes. Good Luck!
~Brina~
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Mom's are all alike in most ways. My mom is the same way. Just learn to be patient, and you don't have to say your sorry. Maybe the silent treatment will work on her a little bit, or the cold shoulder. Just because we're the kid, doesn't mean were always wrong. Also maybe talk to your dad, or even your Aunt who you were talking to at the time. Or, a last resort, talk things out with your mom, and let her know whats up, and how you feel.
You cant really prevent how your mother will act. Unless you move out or something, then yes. You don't have to apologize though, your mom had no right to yell at you. And it could seem that she wants attention, and maybe she could be stressed.
My advice would be to let her approach you, and apologize first after giving her a little bit of the cold shoulder. Then talk things out.
Hope I helped!
-Justine.
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I don't think you're wrong here. Your mother had no right to interrupt you. The only way to deal with the situation is to talk to your mother. Things will never be fixed until it's discussed and a solution is come up with. I find it to be a good idea to compromise and make a contract.
What your mother did was rude, and she owes you an apology. I'm not really sure what the conditions of your situation are, but from your post it sounds like your mother is at fault. Good luck with everything. If I helped you and you have anymore questions feel free to stop by my advice column!
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