hey thanks so much.. this really helps.. well would u count this as something between my guy and this girl that they use to be best friends and he liked her and all but they never really went out cause they were to shy to ask each other out.. well hopefully we will turn into friends cause shes really cool and everything but she just doesnt like me very much cause she wants this guy and im going out with him.. and about the part of dnt bring the guy around her so much thats kind of hard cause my guy in school walks me to all my classes even the bus. and wen we hug or anything it makes her mad.. but i really want us to fix our friendship. any other advie?
this question was in my feedback, i'm guessing it was Stacy?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? aRiElLeLUVSu answered Friday May 13 2005, 8:32 am: Who did you hear their "history" from? Because it may be that it was something more than that, which causes the bitterness. Maybe there is something that one of them isn't telling you, and they don't plan to, but don't take it personally. It may be hard for them to "relive" it. She probably doesn't WANT your guy, she may just want his friendship back. I know from personal experience that when one of my guy friends goes out with a girl, they change a lot and they grow more distant. That may be the only problem. About them not being able to be apart, maybe just keeping general conversation, not acting so.."lovey" around her. Yeah i know it puts limitations on you and your guy, but trust me from personal experience, it does make her feel uncomfortable. I hope this helps, Love Arielle [ aRiElLeLUVSu's advice column | Ask aRiElLeLUVSu A Question ]
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