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Is He or Is He Not....
I enjoy talking with this guy that comes to a lot of my clubs, and he asks me sometimes about my friends (who he sometimes crushes on) so I considered him my friend. Soemtimes, though, like if I tell him I bought some new CD or I went to the mall on Saturday, he totally flips out at me and tells me that no one cares. Sometimes I don't understand it- I mean, seriously if my friend told him the same thing he would laugh and talk about it with her.
Should I consider him a friend or not?
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Not to be mean but I think that he is using you to get to your friend because he seems like he likes her. I wouldnt really consider him as a friend because hes really rude to you most of the time. A friend wouldnt really treat someone like that! Is he bipolar? Cuz his moods seem to change a lot! When he talks to you and tells you something dont listen and tell him that you dont care. Just do the same thing he does to you. But I wouldnt even talk to him. Dont let him use you like that tho. X0`
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nope... throw him away girl
=) lol love demery
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not exactly a friend, either an aquaintance or a friend's friend. this guy sounds like a real jerk to me but whatever.
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Not really he doesnt seem very nice. try and talk to him and ask if he is your friend. thats the only way you can find out.
luv shelly
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I wouldnt' If he completely switches and is such an ass to you like that, then he really isn't your friend. Regaurdless of if he cares or not, if he was really your friend he would listen to you alot more than it seems like he has been.
Be nice to him when he is nice to you, be civil towards him. But as soon as he becomes an ass you have full right to go bitch-mode too. Call him on his bluff, ask him why he's being a dick and tell him you dont think you deserve it. (he'll probably come back with a "oh i was just kidding around" in which you can say "thats bullshit" :D )
Dont just take it when he treats you like shit- espically because if he was a real friend he wouldnt be doing it- stand up for yourself and make it known that you're not a pushover.
Good luck with that :)
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.__. Talk about being bipolar..flip out on him. Look at him straight in the eyes and say " FUCK YOU! I DON'T NEED YOUR CRAP! IF YOU'RE GOING TO TREAT ME LIKE YOU ARE THAN YOU DON'T DESERVE ANY OF MY FRIENDS!" ...I wanted to say more..but..I gotta be careful..O_O;;
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not a friend.. hes probably talking to you about your friends because he likes them.. anyone who flips on you because you said what you did today is a rude asshole
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Sorry, I'm with Paris. He's either a) just talking to you to get closer to your friends or b) just a really inconsiderate friend. I mean, if you're just trying to have a normal conversation, and he can't even pretend to be interested...Yeah, you wouldn't want a friend like that anyway.
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no offense but i think hes using you to get to your friends. my advice is dont consider him a friend. if i were u i would tell him something like listen you want to flirt with my friends go right ahead but dont even think for a sec. that i am your friend because you dont respect me enough to claim that position.
_PaRiS_
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