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Is It wrong?
Female 16...Is it wrong to go out with youre exboyfriends brother Even if he likes u? And what if your still in love with his brother but really want to go out with him?
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If you still like your ex, then I don't think you shouldn't go out with his brother. It sounds like some form of a revenge plan-- not only that, but if the brother really likes you, then you'll end up hurting his feelings too, if he finds out that you still like your ex.
Not only that, but by dating his brother it means you will still have to deal with/see your ex... and think of what this could do to his family.
I think you should try to begin dating again, and try to get over your ex... but not by dating your ex's brother.
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Only ethically. You're 16 and have a long life ahead of you. What you do now is a reflection of what you will do later. As a teenager, you are creating patterns for yourself and it's good to keep them good and positive.
Going out with your ex's BROTHER and still having feelings for your ex. is begging for trouble... both now and later.
This would be a great Test of Character. If you can resist the urge of dating him, maybe it'll be alot easier when you're married and tempted for the cute waiter that keeps winking at you.
Think about it this way.
You can dump your ex's brother anytime, but your reputation will follow you wherever you go.
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Well you could cause major tension and feelings of hate between the 2 brothers. And it sounds as if you're using the X's brother to get to the X. Not such a good idea to me. But if you truly care, talk to the one you like about it. This is a stupid example, but do you know the show 7th Heaven? I forgot the name of the guy, but I think it was Lucy that dated him 1st, then Mary dated him secretly, and when Lucy found out there was major pissed off attitudes towards each other, then eventually Mary picked Lucy over the guy.
Eventually unless this guy REALLY cares, and I doubt you two are at the age of love (it's still possible though) but anyway, unless you REALLY care, and he REALLY cares, I wouldn't risk it because it could even in the smallest way break up the family (or at least the brothers) and you don't want to be responsible for that do you?
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If you are still in love with the original brother, but go out with the other brother, then some people would say that you are using the other brother. You could cause some damage here that can never be repaired. I would not go down that road if I were you.......
Michele
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