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this is really embarasing to say even though its annonymous. im 16 my bf is 20 i was on birth control and went off and tuesday i went to go back on it and they give you a pregnacy test to make sure your not pregnant before you go on birth control. well results were positive and im pregnant. the lady gave me papers on abbortion and my mom is understanding and i am going tomorow to get it done.
i have never been so scared in my life. i feel like this murderer for killing this baby that hasnt done anything wrong. but on the other hand i am so not stable to have a baby. what should i do i know ill regret this for the rest of my life?
you probably have no clue what to say but if you were in my position what would you do :O(
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you could have the baby and set it up for adoption. yes you're have to do all these papers and you're giving your baby away to a completely new place, but it's a better feeling than knowing that you just killed a living being. you probably shouldn't keep it, like you're still in high school (unless you dropped out) and you wouldn't have time to take care of a baby anyway. maybe when you're old enough, you could adopt your baby!! that's the best thing i can come up with, just never give your baby away to this random woman, give it to a GOOD orphanage that will actually take care of it and treat it right.
this is actually too late because you probably sent it a few days ago (for all i know). i hope that you somehow thinked about this idea and did it instead of murdering a baby. hope you made a good decision!! good luck!! :)
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