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I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
my friend and i like the same guy. i knew him first and ive liked him since the day i met him. he doesnt go to school with us but we both know him now. i havent talked to him or seen him in about a year.. but for some reason i still think about him a lot. well now i found out that she knows him.. and that they are really good friends. now since shes friends with him im sure im going to be seeing him sometimes. i know she likes him because shes told me. would it be wrong for me to try to get him to like me over her... or would i be being a bad friend? ... do i even have a chance if i try? please help me
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yes that would be bad because it would be hurtful on her part think of it this way. how would you feel if you found out that she found out you knew this guy & liked him & she was going to fight for him & try to get him to like her over you. if they arent dating and you like him romatically then you still have a shot. but dont put her down because guys dont like that when girls have such low self esteem that they have to put other girls down to make themselves look better and no one else likes it either. tell him how you feel be honest with both him and your freind and be straight with her that you have liked this guy for a long time and to please not get in the way. but remember unfortunatly you cant control who likes you and if he dosent like you and likes your freind and she likes him then be happy for them and move on chances are there is someone more suited for you out there good luck.
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Well, fighting with a friend over something as stupid as a boy (no offense) is well, just plain stupid. Since you "saw him first" I think you should at least try to be friends with him...as soon as you get comfortable enough with him, tell him how you feel, and he'll be open about his feelings to you. At this point, if he says no, don't be crushed. At least you are still friends with him right?
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Well, since you havn't talked to him in a year, you should probably not get all upset that your friend is now friends with him and has feelings for him. I think that you have every right to try to get his attention, but don't stab your friend in the back about it. You don't have to go ALL OUT and flirt majorly or talk bad about your friend to the guy, but you should gradually become friends with him again and if things turn into something more, than great! You also might want to try and tell your friend about your feelings for the guy. She may think it ridiculous considering you havn't seen/talked to him in a year, but who knows..the least she could do is not talk about him and her's relationship around you, ya know?
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ok well since you knew him first then you should have the first say on it, but since you havent seen him in a year then you may want to re-get to know him because he may have changed since then.. so really just follow what you feel is right!
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hey!!...well i think you should talk to your friend first and see how she reacts about it..and if she doesnt like it then just wait..on the other hand you could talk to him and tell him how you feel and find out how he feels about you..if he likes you..then you can tell your friend that and she should respect that that is who he likes..if not then shes not a true friend..hope i could help!
x3 katie
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i say go for it! if shes a really good friend i dont think she'll mind.
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