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too many people like him!!!!
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There is this guy i like. lets call him k. but like 5 other girls do too. But this might sound like something everyone would say, but i've liked k the longest. one of my friends, lets call her r, who also likes k started liking him after me and when k found out we both liked him, he told my other friend, s, he liked both of us back. now that was a while ago. then r, went out with someone totally different, we'll call him a. but then a broke up with r like 2 weeks later and r started liking k again. now all this time, i've liked k. NOW, my other friend, L, likes k also!!! but i've talked to both of them and my friend r says that even though she likes k, she knows how much i do and that i could have him. i guess. then L told me that she knows how long i've liked k and that she knows how it feels to not get the one that you want and to watch someone else have him. (thats a different story). but then if i get k, i'll feel really bad for all the others who like him, even though i've been waiting forever to have him, even before i knew anyone else liked him. please help. i dont know what to do.
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Isn't it up to "K" who he decides to like?
Michele
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Forget the r's, s's and l's! It doesn't matter at all who liked K the longest or first... it matters who he goes out with now. Just step it up and be there first!
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I was in the very same predicament . I, unlike you, never told this guy that I liked him . And I knew that he liked me b/c it was the look in his eyes whenever he saw me . I didn't risk that hurt for my friends, for my life, and everything else to be with him . I made a major mistake and I hope you won't do the same . Everytime I see him and everytime I think of him, I think of what I could've had and it causes me insecurities . It causes me to be less content . You'll always be in doubt about it . You'll say we could've, we should've, and everything else . You'll always remain curious . If your friends say that it is alright, then you should really go for it . Don't miss out on the opportunity . I'm in despair and at least you really know that he likes you . Try . Try ...and even if he rejects you, at least you can live with yourself knowing that you did try . And basically it's his loss . So live on and learn from my mistake . Try please try and let me know how it goes. Good luck and really let me know how it goes . I'm Courtney by the way and just Courtney . See yah .
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First of all, no one knows who these people are so I don't know why you just created an alphabet of people. That's pretty immature to begin with and maybe you aren't ready to date.
Second, it doesn't matter who likes him the longest or who likes him now or whatever else, it matters who he likes also. If he doesn't want to date you, he won't. If you really want to see if he likes you, the most mature thing you can do is ask him.
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It doesn't matter if you knew him the longest, all of the other girls have an equal chance of getting him regardless.
The thing that I hate about these type of questions is that you girls always think or ask us "How do I make the guy notice me, like me, or ask me out?" It's his decision as much as it is yours for liking him. If he likes you, he'll act upon his instincts and ask you out. If not, tough luck.
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