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Hey. Well I want to ask you something because I know you've gone through the same stuff as me. I just don't know what to do because this past year has been really, really hard. Alot of drama and stuff has happened and I've made mistakes, but doesnt everyone? lol. But some how even when I apologize to people and try to get over stuff, people are still really rude to me and I haven't even done anything to some people. I know that everyone says to just try to ignore what people say, thats so hard to do. You would think that ignoreing people would make people stop or at least not say as much mean stuff as they do, but really it stays the same or even gets worse. Its so hard to get up everyday and have to go to a school where whenever you walk down the hallway people are either whispering behind your back or yelling really rude comments to your face. I dont think that ANYONE deserves the stuff people say to me, know matter who they are. Its amazing how much stuff people can say towards one person and now realize how badly it can hurt them. Like you wouldnt believe some of the stuff people say to me, its unbelieveable. And I just don't know what to do. I've tried to kind of stay away from alot of the people in my grade and tried to "lay-low" on the weekends but nothing works. You may not have any advice to give me but I think anything could help me right now.
Thanks.
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All I can say is, I know exactly what you're going through. Not as many people hate me as the beginning of the year because I changed my reputation. It takes a lot to change your reputation in high school and I thank God every night that I did. I used to be known as "The Bitch, Whore, Slutty" girl. Granted, there are people who still believe I am, but honestly I've changed. I apoligized to everyone I was rude to, and like you, "laid low" on the weekends. All you can do, is not let those people get to you. I know it's hard, and i know that no one deserves the things people have said to me either and I'm sure you too. You have to stay confident with yourself and know that those things are not true! Remember that only you can change you and everyone else can only influence you. Keep your head high babe and don't let people get you down. It's going to be hard, and you probably won't like it for a while, but school is almost over and then you have a break from it during the summer. I hope everything works out!
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