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i'm not racist..


Question Posted Wednesday April 27 2005, 8:38 pm

Helloooo I am 16/female and Korean..except I'm kinda preppy..actually very preppy..most of my friends are white..Anyway, is it weird that I only have crushes on WHITE GUYS? Is this normal...or am I racist?? I don't think I'm racist because I do have Mexican and Black friends..I just am only attracted to white abercrombie-type guys...Why??? It's not like they would go out with me though because I'm asian...so if there's a white guy out there, please answer and tell me why won't you go out with me?? I will rate 5's for honest but non-critisizing answers..also I want to know why I know have crushes on white guys!

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hitler_the_goat answered Thursday April 28 2005, 8:43 pm:
you're korean and they're not going after you!?
im sorry, but they must be messed up dudes.
I am working my ass off to get stationed halfway around the world to meet korean girls and they have the luck of one in the neighborhood???
but really, its not racist, thats just your type of guy. me, i obviously love korean women. hah, i'm half french canadian, and i think french canadian women and anything french is bizarre and to be avoided. so its not really abnormal, its just what you're used to.(to readers:don't get on me because you're french, you cheese-eating surrender-monkeys, my family left before the bravery gene went extinct.)
-a public service announcement by hitler
edit//
since i'm so funny and you're single, whats your number?

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pretty_n_punk09 answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 9:21 pm:
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with liking white 'Abercrombie'ish guys. Everyone has a preference. You prefer white dudes. You aren't racist, it's only a preference. And I'm sure you are beautiful! Those guys who can't see that are obviously dumb as dirt!

~Hope that helps~

~Really! lol~

~K~

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mellobymorning answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 9:16 pm:
Hey girl!! I'm Half Chinese, and I'm so proud of my heritage, even though I have felt insecurties about it. Guys should love you for who are, not because of your race. I've only been attracted to white boys, but that EXOTIC girl is always loved!! I do not think its racist at all. To be attracted to someone means that with every glimps of the boy makes your heart flutter, and what ever race, religion, or hobbies, it is perfectly OK. Try not to worry, every thing is just fine the way it is!!

hope I helped!!
Your ASIAN AMIGO-
mellobymorning

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karenR answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 9:10 pm:
There is no telling why people are attracted to the people they are attracted to! But it certainly doesn't make you racist. Good luck finding someone you like! :)

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bigzcenter answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 9:00 pm:
i think its cool that you like white guys. It doesnt matter if they are white. if i met somebody that is a different skin color but i loved their personality i wouldnt glance twice at their skin color. I am personaly mexican (well somewhat). thats just the kind of guy you like i dont critizize it.
hope i helped

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mapetiteodette answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 8:46 pm:
It's perfectly fine that you only have crushes on these kinds of people. Just because you don't have crushes on people of other races doesn't mean that you are racist. A 'Racist' is someone who degrades other races, and you are not doing that. You are probably influenced by your society (all the white male models and actors, etc.) and none of the people of other races really interest you. Someday you may meet someone of another race who you will crush on- for now, don't worry about being racist, because you are not.

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Sherry answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 8:40 pm:
Thats just your style. Thats who your attracted to so dont worry about it. Your not racist, we all have different things we look for in guys..and you just happen to like the white guys more. dont worry so much over it!

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