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Ok, I have this friend that was my friend since K-gartin. Now, she was great up until 2nd grade, then she started acting mean, selfish, dumb and she just wasn't really fun anymore. So the last couple years I have been trying to 'break up with her' but she is trying to be realy tight with me like in the olden days. Last week she was saying that I had problems and I was mean. I got mad at her and she knows I was mad at her, but now she wants me to forgive her. This is the position that I always wanted to be in so that I could totaly 'ditch' her. But, I don't want to make her tell her mom and cry like she did in 3rd grade when I 'ditched' her. We had a long talk and she got her way. I don't want that to happen again. Can you tell me how to ditch her without her getting sad and angry and everything that she was in 3rd grade?!? That would be a BIG help! Thanks,
-Desprate for a break
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well i would like to know how old you girls are now. there really isnt a good way to 'ditch' a friend especailly one that wants to be your friend. im sorry thats probably not want you want to hear. well make sure you're ditching hre for good reasons and not selfish ones. and i wouldn't worry about the girls mother. She has nothing to do with you. but a real friend deosnt doesnt tell you that youre mean and have problems. i would just do it gradually like hang out with her less and less. get her to make other friends and just go your seperate ways. dont be mean about it. there are just some people in the world that you just have to let them get what they want but theyre never satisfied. you just have to go with them and keep your dirty thoughts to yourself.
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