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how do you give head?? i owe my boyfriend and ive never done it before!! any tips?
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Right, I make it a point to answer all the questions people ask me personally so we'll skip the moral debate on whether you 'owe' him or not, but I should point out that as a bloke I may not be able to phrase this correctly. Okay so firstly the act of fellatio involves contact between the penis and the mouth.
Rule number one: Don't suck it!
Rule number two: Don't bite it!
The end of the penis is the most sensitive part so you want to concentrate your attentions on that. Use all the soft parts of the mouth to touch it and don't take it in deeper than you feel comfortable with (not all people find gagging sexy). Also, don't be afraid to use your hands as well as it all contributes. Just be gentle and tender, and ask him to give you advice if you aren't embarrased. Hope I helped, but ask me again if you need more specific answers.
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You do not "owe" your boyfriend oral sex.
You shouldn't be having any sort of sex because you feel you should. If you both want to make this step together, then try it, but please don't feel you have to, now or ever.
Oral sex, like anything sexual, is about exploring what both partners enjoy. Do what comes naturally, and keep doing what works for the both of you. It's not a mechanical process where if you just do x, y and z then you'll be satisfied, it's about finding what works for you as individuals, and enjoying discovering new things about each other and being intimate.
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have you ever seen white chicks??? what ever you do.. dont do that... lol i guess i dont have any tips for you... ummm he should let you know what he likes and what he doesnt.. and if he cant tell you that maybe you guys arent close enough to be having oral sex... well hope i helped.. bye
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Well this is some question..
My advice to you would be to ask him what he enjoys. If you have never and neither has he then experimenting would be the best way to go about it.
Another thing... You shouldn't have to OWE your boyfriend any sort of sexual favor. If you aren't willing to then you shouldn't have to.
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