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Pregnant?
Today during school, I realized one of my "Not friend/Not enemy" was wearing a unflattering shirt. It is one of those shirts that mothers wear when they are pregnant, so naturally it made her look pregnant as well. I happen to be sitting in class when I noticed this and said it out loud. I knew people heard me because they laughed when they realized it too. I specifically told one person in the day and she laughed and said hah yeah she does. Later in the day, I found out that person I told, told her. I'm pretty upset. Not like I care if my "Not friend" doesn't like me, I just kinda of hate having people mad at me, you know? Should I be upset? Not RAWR upset, just not happy about it
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If you are annoyed with the girl you told for telling other people, have a quick word with her. You honestly can't take the moral highround and tell her off for spreading rumours, but you can be honest and say your comment wasn't meant to be taken seriously or to get back to the girl, and that if you make a similar comment in future, she should understand that it is just a comment, and not something that should go further than that.
As for the girl in the unflattering top, it might be worth apologising to her if you feel bad about your comment getting back to her. Don't make a big deal out of it, just be honest and say that you know it wasn't a nice thing to say, but it wasn't supposed to be a bitchy thing or something that you intended to be spread around. She probably still won't be delighted with you, but at least you will have stood up and taken responsibility for your actions. Good luck.
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If you don't want people mad at you don't say rude things about people. You should be not happy if you have a conscious at all. That is what it's for. This could be the start of rumors and that just isn't cool at all.
EDIT: You didn't have to SAY she was pregnant. Have you never played the game gossip? By the time the comment goes through two or three people, it can change dramatically. That's what I meant. :)
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