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Am i in love? Am i being an idiot?
I have a friend who i've known for about a year now and we both get on really well. I've always felt realy jealous when she gets a boyfriend, and, sometimes subconsciously get mad at her when either she doesnt pay enough attention to me or when she does stuff with a guy in front of me. At first when we met we were only friends and our friendship revolved around drugs, she wanted them and i got them. I recently realized that i am in love with her. She evokes feelings in me that i cant explain any other way. Ive always loved her but being in love would explain a lot to me. She loves me (she's not in love, essential difference, only friendship to her) and i know she isnt a nasty person. Shes been seeing a complete jerk of a guy 3 times in a row now. I hate him and she knows it hurts me to see them together and yet she still does. He has broken up with her and cheated on her before yet she keeps going back. This girl is an amazing friend but i want her to be more, she's special. But i cant tell her how i feel. And everytime i insult her because of her boyfriend or anything i cant help but feel like im just mad at her for not being in love with me. I dont know what to do can someone help? Right now im not talking to her because shes going out with the idiot again and wont listen to my opinions on him. Am i being stupid?
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Okay first of all... get off the drugs.. ok now with the girl.. just tell her how u feel and that you only dont want her to be with those jerks because.. you care about her. If she doesnt feel the same way :( dont let that ruin your friendship. You really do sound like you love her and hopefully shell feel the same way about you. Good luck!!
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your not being stupid, but you are being stupid doing drugs.
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You are most definatly not being stupid or an idiot.
Sadly, however, you're just that 'really good friend' of hers. That's probably all she'll ever see you as. I know it hurts, but you'll move on. You'll find a girl who'll appreciate you for you, not for drugs. I swear it.
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