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im really good friends with this guy, like we tell eachother everything and talk all the time. yesterday he started going out with my best friend who decided a week ago that she hates me for no reason. and now he's suddenly thinking that i like him because "it fits into stories she tells" i told him i didnt but i dont know what to do. i really dont want our friendship to change,and im afraid it will. he says that no matter what it wont because of him going out with her, but i think now that he asked me that it might. PLEASE HELP!!
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Well 1, you should talk to her and ask her why she hates you. you should ask him what "stories she tells" and if you guys are best friends, he shouldnt acuse you of liking him. and if he says your friendship wont change, i'd believe him.
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Just leave it at that. If he still thinks you like him just be like I tell you everything, why wouldn't I tell you this. And just continue to tell him you don't like him until he gets it.
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Well, here's what I have to say to that.
I have a friend exactly like that. She's BEST BEST friends with a guy who's a really awesome guy and all, but he's a flirt, [ if you know what i mean ]. For the statement of not wanting your friendship to change, this might be hard because of what he said. If you really don't feel that way about him then tell him, but don't hurt his feelings! He might of said that for reassurance... maybe because he might like you. As for your friend, she randomly started hating you? Well friends come and friends go, they change aswell.. no matter how tight we hold on. But maybe this is just a phase. Maybe she thought that you might like "her guy" since she probably liked him before they started to date. Maybe she was being defensive of your guy friend. maybe over time with them going out it will stop, but if it doesn't ask your guy friend to ask her about what's going on, why she's acting that way. Try and not let what he said change your friendship because good friends are hard to come by these days. Keep the ones that mean most to you and don't let little things come in between yall.
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first off .. do you like the guy? and what was the story about that she told him?
i would tell him that you are glad yall are GOOD friends and you dont want nothing to hurt your friendship. And if what the girl told him was lies, then i would tell him that she is lying about it to try to make you and him not be friends anymore. Hope this helped. and send something back to my inbox about the questions uptop and i can help some more!
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