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*True Friendship?


Question Posted Monday March 14 2005, 9:13 pm

I have so many friends, I can really walk down the hall every day saying hi to everyone. Even though its great to have friends, I always feel like what I really need is a best friend. But thats not possible for me. I have had so many BFF and lost them.

And i have friends that I just realized only liked me because I was popular, and besides, i'm not really that popular I just have popular friends. When ever I hang out with with my friends, for partner things, i'm left with the person I dont even know.

But my question is, how can I let my friends know I feel this way? Will it even do anything?


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xpianogirl89x answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 9:11 pm:
Alright well I think honestly you wouldn't be popular if people didn't really like you, but I'm gonna try to make you feel better..

I know what you mean about losing best friends but keep trying, I finally found someone who I've been best friends with now for about 3 years and I know he'll always be there for me. Even if they're short lived close friendships they're still so important and so meaningful. You really just have to find the right person, but they're there don't worry...

So I guess my real answer to your question should be, yes! tell your friends what you're feeling.. You feel like you aren't as close to them as you'd like to be, or they leave you out, or whatever. Just talk to them. Tell them what's bothering you. It most likely will make a difference in how they act..
Good luck with that, and if you ever need to talk I'm here.

Hope I helped!
~Lana

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