Jessica use to be my best friend, ever since we
ve come back from vaca she started ignored me and is hanging around with a girl that hates me. We didnt even get int oa figth! Every time i talk to her she doesnt listen. What do i do!
age-12
female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? FunnyCide answered Thursday March 10 2005, 5:02 pm: Ok, as sad as this is, it is all too common. Think back to your vacation, did you say anything that might have started this? Hung out with a guy she likes? (boys are commonly the cause of best friend break ups, sadly) Maybe not. It could be that she heard a rumor about her or you, and she got mad, or someone else said something to her. What do you do? I would write her a letter, yes, an old fashioned letter with a stamp and envelope, and mail it to her. You could write it on the computer and not put your name on it until the end where you sign it, and then she'd sortof be forced to read it. (or at least be curious enough to read it) and if you say you're sorry, and want to be friends, but you don't know why she's mad at you, she might listen. You could ask another one of her friends why she's mad at you, you could e-mail her, or ask her face to face. I'm sorry this happened, pray about it. I hope things get better! If she doesn't listen to you, you should try and find another friend. I know it's hard to move on, but if you let her get to you, she'll know and might be happy.
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