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15 f, i have a big group of friends..but they are all guys. we always go to parties together and a lot of them always try to hook up with me i recently broke up with my long term boyfriend and JASON CODY and TERRY asked me out. im worried that if i go out with any of the guys in my group the rest will get cut at me and ditch me.. i really like CODY.. not only is he the youngest in the group (16) but hes the shortest and im the tallest girl in school(5'11)... They are all fighting about it.. i dont know what to do i really like CODY but we look stupid together, it will cause a lot of trouble and i could end up with no friends.. what should i do?
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Ooo... tricky. The easiest, simplest, and maybe even smartest thing to do would be to not date any of them. However, if you feel that this is not an option, then go ahead and follow your feelings. If you have good chemistry with Cody, then who cares about the height difference? There's a great big fat chance that he'll hit a growth spurt.
Secondly, if they are really your friends, then you should be able to calmly talk to them about why you like Cody more than Jason and Terry. Don't forget to remind them that you still love them, but you have different feelings for Cody. If they love you, then they'll understand.
Also, remember that it could end sourly with Cody as well, and that could open yet another can of worms.
Cheers!
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If you like Cody as much as you say you do, it would not matter how stupid you look together. But, since you don't want to ruin your friendships, tell them that. Maybe after awhile they will back off and you can go out with Cody. Besta Luck
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your young! Go out with them all one time and then go out again with any of them you really liked. Who cares if your taller than Cody? Girls mature faster, he'll catch up soon. You were all friends when you had the long term guy weren't you? I don't think they will stop being your friends. A couple of them might have hurt feelings for awhile but they'll get over it.Since you all go out together a lot of the time you'll still be all together.Just have fun and don't be shallow and worry about appearences,they don't matter at all.
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