i have two best friends who r dating. i've had a huge thing for one of them for months, but held it back so it didn't cause trouble or cost me friendships. lately though they've been having problems. the one i like is seriously considering breaking up with the friend. i spent the night with the one i like and things got out of control (physically). and the one i like is talking about asking me out. i've wanted this for months, but i don't want to risk my close friendship with the soon-to-be ex. do you have any advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Warnstedt answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 10:56 pm: Oh my God. You could not have asked a harder question. I can give two sets of advice here, one for guys and one for gals (as i don't know which gender you are). For guys, it's the old saying, "Bro's before hoes." unless of course your hippies and then girlfriend tradeing is allowed. (this is of course up to debate). For gals, its alot harder because true emotions get involved. As I am a guy, I can only advise playing it by ear if you are female. And by no means should you rush into this relationship. go here for female advice from a female: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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