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break up
hey im 23 i live in this campsite with a bunch of my family ((dont ask, long story)) and i had a boyfriend who i'd been with since i was 18. we were going to get married and he proposed to me, and it was after we made up because my brother and our friends had helped us to make up because we were fighting for various reasons. well, he proposed to me and then the next day i went somewhere with my 2 girlfriends and i ran into this kid who i went out with for a pretty long time in highschool. we got to talking and he didnt know i had a boyfriend. well the same night i was sitting talking with everyone and my cellphone rang and it was him. he told me he found out i had a boyfriend and he hung up on me and sounded really upset. so i went out to talk to him with my 2 girlfriends and we didnt come back until about 3 in the morning. well my fiance stayed up waiting for me and when i came in he asked why i wasnt home earlier and accused me of cheating on him ((one of the fights we previously had was because he was cheating on me)) and well i got mad and he never came to bed that night ((we share a gigantic camper with about 8 people)) and i woke up the next morning and found a note that said he was out just like i had been and would be back later. so he came back then the next morning and he was drunk so i threw the ring at him and i pretty much kicked him out. well i went back to him after having a boyfriend and told him i still loved him and he told me he didnt want me to find out this way but he had a girlfriend. so now i like him and i dont know what to do because deep down i think he really does like me. he ran his car into a tree when we broke up the one time and idk hes just really comfusing.
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hmm. your xfiance has a boyfriend? well here's what i say...
1) on your part, you were stupid for breaking up with him over just that.
2)on his part, he shouldnt have done that and got drunk just because you went out with ur 2 girlfriends to tell a boy you were sorry.
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I think you should have a serious talk with him. Ask him if there is any way you would get with him in the future. If he says no, as much as it may hurt, you just gotta move on. Besta Luck
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Okay, let me get this straight...
Are you telling me that you had to kick out your fiance because he didn't trust you, even though he was the one who cheated on you? And this guy, that you dated previously got upset because you had a boyfriend, only for you to find out later that he had a girlfriend?
Wow, that is just...really messed up my dear. I think you need to kick them both to the curb, head for the hills, and don't look back. Neither of them are worthy of you, please find someone who is!
BTW, in case I misunderstood, and you would like to address the issue, please leave something in my feedback or inbox. Best of luck to ya' girlie :)
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Haha! I didn't understand! Sorry ;)
Anyway, yeah...I'm sticking to what I said, about your former fiancee at least. I only retract my comment about the other guy.
(Thanks for clearing that up. Gracias...)
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i think you need to get over him... you need to move on and find someone that trusts you and that wont cheat on you.
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Theres really no way to know unless you ask him -- But he might not say the truth because he has a g.f but you never know -- Straight out tell him how you feel the worst he can do is say i dont feel the same way -- But if he got mad that you had a b/f then theres deff. something there i mean why would he get mad if he was just a friend right??!! GO FOR IT -- If he doesnt feel the same way its his loss not yours!
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