Question Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 7:35 pm
ok well mi dating my bf for the fourth time and i love him very much. But everyone thinks he's cheatin on me cause he puts up some big front like he's a big flirt and hard core rocker. But really he's not and he's really sweet and kind. Though my friends don't see this and they think he's a jerk.So know there all not getting along and i just want them to see that he's really not a jerk. What do i do?
CraziForRey619 answered Friday February 18 2005, 7:28 pm: Try going to the movies on a double date with a couple of your friends. Or you could always explain to him that none of your friends like him and it bugs you when he acts like a flirt. Besta Luck [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
Meags227 answered Thursday February 17 2005, 10:11 pm: First, you have got to think of WHY they think he is a big flirt and cheats on you. They have their reasons. You may just be in denial because you don't want to face the truth. If you are SURE that he just acts that way and is really sweet and kind, then talk to your friends. Tell them how torn you are and wish they would all get along. Ask them to give your boyfriend a chance. If that doesn't work out, then talk to your boyfriend. Ask him to show your friends the true him- the side you know and love. If your friends still don't like him, then just ask them to ignore each other and let you live your life they way you want to. If they (or your bf) can't accept this, then you don't want to be with them anyway. Hope I helped!
~Meags [ Meags227's advice column | Ask Meags227 A Question ]
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