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Ok, well, my one friend, Chrisy is going out with this one kid named Josh. See the thing is, is that one day i was over at my other friend's house, leah, and she asked Josh if he like her and he sadi yes, and that he was going to break up with Chrisy a weeek after valentines day. I promised Leah i owuldn't tell anyone. See the thing is is thT IDK if i should tell Chrisy what happened or not. I love Chrisy and LEah the same, but idk wut to do....please help!
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I think you should kind if hint around to Chrisy to dump him first. You wouldn't be breaking your promise to Leah, but you wouldn't have to watch your friend get hurt.
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I think that you should tell chrisy. She deserves to know what her "boyfriend" is doing behind her back. Once you've told her, treat her to an ince-cream or something special.
Good Luck!
Sophie xxx
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telling chrissy is the right thing to do... chrissy will be heartbroken and if chrissy finds out that you knew about it all along she is going to be very angry with you.... its the right thing to do... if leah gets mad at you thats her loss... u did the right thing and thats all you need to remember... ask leah "if you were in chrissys possition, wouldnt you wana know?" and im sure she will agree... and ask yourself the same question if chrissy knew your boyfriend was going to break up with you for someone else wouldnt you want her to tell you? think about it... teling her is the right thing to do! i hope i helped!
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It may be better to just stay out of this for now. I believe that you love both of these friends, but if you're not directly involved, then sometimes it's best to just let the ones involved figure it out. If you tell Chrisy, it will be considered gossip--and if Josh wasn't serious, then you've got a whole new problem (Chrisy might confront him, and he'll have no clue what she's talking about).
That's just speaking from loads of personal experience...but if you do tell her, I hope it all works out.
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Tell Chrisy.. I kno you made a promise but its not fair, that way she can confront him and settle it, if she finds out you knew and didn't tell her, she may be more heartbroken.*IHIH
Kaitlyn* Let me KNow what happens
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is your friend chrisy sad? if so you cant lie to her and tell her that you dont know why he did what he did. i know you made a promise to your friend but she got what she wanted and your other friend is left with nothing. if she isnt sad..then let her figure it out herself. and dont let on that you know anything I hope I helped
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