ok my mom always nags on me and well her mood swings off and on from happy to sad to angry... its driving me insane!!! how do i make her stop nagging me about stuff that i do wrong or what i didnt do... plz help!!!
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marmoora answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 10:19 am: look u gotta talk to her abt whts bugging u...im sure she's got loads on her mind now...u have to choose a time when she's calm and that ur ready to talk 2 her in a nice calm way..thats the best and only solution...
and remember being direct is the best way to solve problems and tell her that if she's got any probs u'll always be there and support her! good luck :) [ marmoora's advice column | Ask marmoora A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 5:09 am: Heya,
My mum is exactly the same and short of talking to her (which usually just gets my mum angry) there's nothing you can do...
Although, when she's ranting at you, it may just be that she's having a tough time over something and you're the only one there to blame. Usually if I just keep quiet and don't get angry back at my mum then her 'moods' last for a shorter time than if I yell back or tell her how unfair she's being.
Hope that helped a little! Sorry there's nothing more I could say!
Ooh, but if you're angry, try the whole 'turn your back and count to ten' thing to try and calm yourself down, and if that doesn't work, then go and punch some pillows - very theraputic and a lot of fun!! :D
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
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