my good friend, ill call her jenny, has this boyfriend, ill call him scott, and they were going out for about 6 months. Jenny told scott she was not loving him as much and Scott broke up with her. Jenny was so upset and wouldnt stop crying. They got back together and a few times he has made her cry again. I tell her to dump him now before she gets hurt agian but she says "i thought if i was happy, you would be happy for me, but i guess thats too much to ask" so i tell her "i want to see you happy and every time he makes you cry, your not happy and you just need to end it with him" she wont though and im afraid of how something bad happened to her. The first time they broke up she wouldnt eat for about 4 days and she got a bad rash all over her body. HELP!!
lildiamyn_69 answered Monday January 31 2005, 8:25 pm: :( i know you wanna help, but it seems like she needs someone else in this. Maybe her mom, or a school counselor. It was normal heartbreak until she started harming herself. Then that means they've both gone too far. She definitely needs help. Keep supporting her, and get someone else to help. Hope everything works out okay. Feel free to come back if you need anything.
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hottdancer134 answered Monday January 31 2005, 6:28 pm: i think your being a great friend!but if he makes her cry frequently then i totally agree w/ you on the break-up thing! she doesn't need a guy like that! hope this helps!
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