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Confidence and faith
Heya Im 15 (in 6 days) and female! There is this guy i like him he likes me. But he is popular (captain of the football team) and im not popular his mates cant stand me thus because im not popular. He hasnt told me he fancies me but tells me im pretty and calls me 'bubby' (babe). And he makes it obvious he does. We only smile to each other have talked a few times but he always makes the first move. Are there any good tactics that i can approach him with? How do i fake being confident? Because i get so scared of his friends.No one believes i can get a bf because im not popular but i have faith in myself i just need to put that faith into practice . please reply thanks ever so much xxx .
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And yes you can be the captain of the football team at 15 if you live in england. They have a captain for each year starting at age 11 to age 16.
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just sit him down and be like.. "if you feel the same way about me that i feel about you, then i think we dont need to worry about your friends.. lets go for it."
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First of all, its great that you don't give a crap about all this "popularity" bullshit.
Ignore his 'friends.' You want to date him, not them. If he is ever alone, just go up to him and start talking. If you can't so that, try something along the lines of "may I borrow a pen." (Just make sure you aren't holding one when you ask.)
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i dont think you should care what his friends thing of you i think that you shuld only care what hee thinks of you and he also shuldnt care wat his firends think ! dont let the popular and unpopular thing get to yu tho ! but good luck with this guy ! x0
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i dont think that it should matter what his friends think i think that it should only mateer what he thinks he should not listen to hhis friends just because they dont likwe you dont let them fool you if they say that he doesnt like you just be yourself and maybe you can try maiking the first move it doesnt matter if yoiu are popular or not well i hope that i helped rate me
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Just keep in mind that all that popular/unpopular stuff is in everybody's head. As soon as you leave high school, it doesn't matter anymore. If you like him, talk to him like you would anyone else. Acting natural and unintimidated will make you more attractive than any act you could do.
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Hi! Well having graduated high school about five years ago, and growing from unpopular to popular I can tell you this. Don't strive on wanting to be popular, the less you think about it and be yourself the more you'll end up having more friends and what not. When it comes to this guy, if he is making the first move, then he doesn't care what his friends think, and neither should you. I know it hurts when they treat you badly, but their just immature, and lack confidence in themselves and need to bring people down to make themselves feel better. Be happy you're not like that! Continue to find things that you like to do, to meet more people like you. And if you're afraid to speak to this guy then just wave at him the next time you see him in the hallway. Waving hello or just saying hi to people surprisingly makes a huge difference. I wish you well and goodluck!
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