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I RATE!!!
ok so I think I'm starting to like this guy! He's a really good guy who isnt into drugs or drinking or anything like that; i love it! AND i think he's beginning to like me too. Ya know how you can just kind of tell? Ok well the problem is he just broke up with his gf of 1 1/2 YEARS!!!!! I love that he can commit for that long and all but... well I hung out with her this weekend at a party and we got along really well. She's the sweetest person but shes tough and funny... if that makes any sense? Well I was talking to my other friend who is better friends with her than me, and she told me that the ex gf was still really protective of him or whatever. The Ex is going to beat up anyone who trys to get with him, even though she is all over every guy!! I know it sounds like their relationship might not be over but i think it is!
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!
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If you really like this guy then tell her that. Tell her she is your friend and it matters to you if it will bother her if you ever got with him. And if she dosent want you to then do it anyways and if she tries to fight you kick her ass! But most likly it won't go that far.
~Well goodluck~
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I believe it is everyone's responsibility to clean up their life of drama, exes, or whatever before they offer themselves to someone else for a relationship.....you shouldn't have that job.
If he wants to be with you, tell him your concerns, and let him do the work of making himself healthy and emotionally available.
Martita
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Talk to the guy, tell him your concerns and hopefully he can talk to the ex and get her to stop being so over protective.
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you're best bet is to ask her personally if she minds... the last thing you want is a bitch fight on you're hands... and if you have that then you're not going to have a good relationship. she will probably be okay if you spoke to her about it. if not then you dont need that!! there a plenty of other guys out there so dont make any dramas in youre life because of one guy.
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Hook up with the guy, don't worry about that girl. If you really want to be with him, you wouldn't let something like that get in your way. So what if she tries to fight you, talk your way out of it, or just walk off. Just cuz she wants to fight you doesn't mean you are actually gonna fight. The guy will/should step in and keep you from fighting. I know that I would if it came to that.
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