Alright my friend is so happy with her boyfriend they have been together for 5 years and are getting engaged... well whenever i hang out with them i kind of get jealous and sad because the way they act.. i wanna be loved too.... and i love this one guy, not my friends boyfriend another guy. and he acts like he likes me I mean holding my hand kissing me... ect. But... it makes me want my guy even more when I am with my friend and her boyfriend... I miss him so much.. but I dont wanna make my friend mad what should I do??
preppygurl answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 12:23 pm: ok you need to tell this guy how you feel!!!! if he really likes you then you guys will be together!! he seems like a really great guy!! your friend will probably understand because she has someone in her life that loves her and you should have the same 4 yourself!! good luck and tell him how you really feel about him!!!
xlostangelx answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 11:02 am: aw well you should be happy for your friend!! i know that it probably hurts to see her and her boyfriend so happy together and you find yourself wishing you could be in the same situation. but you have to look at it this way. 5 years is a long time. your friend and her boyfriend have most likely been through their ups and downs to get to the point where they are today. it takes alot to form a 5 year relationship. dont worry though, you will get there someday too, just like your friend. you just have to be patient. i remember when i was 15 years old and all my friends had boyfriends and one of my friends had a boyfriend for a year, and i was envious of her because i wanted that love too. well, over that summer, i met a guy and now, we have been together for 3 years and it's crazy because i never thought i would ever find someone that i can fall in love with and have them love me back. but, it gets you when you least expect it. so, dont you worry..your day will come...but for now, just enjoy being single girl!! good luck and HAVE FUN!! take care and get back to me for anything else.
evilenterprisesinc answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 8:19 am: ok.. that is the WORST sentence structure ever.. so the first thing you should do is take English 1.01 then rephrase the question so we actually know what your asking.. to me.. it sounds like you wanna shove your finger up your friends arse whilst giving head to her boyfriend.. is this right? [ evilenterprisesinc's advice column | Ask evilenterprisesinc A Question ]
dancedust22 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 7:16 am: Well, sounds to me like you and the guy that you like are doing pretty well....holding hands and kissing ain't too bad...But, if you really feel "unloved,"try giving yourself some space from your best friend and her boyfriend. ...But dont completelt abandon them. Simply focus on the direction that your own life is headed in rather than dwell on how it compares to other people's. [ dancedust22's advice column | Ask dancedust22 A Question ]
hollaren answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 2:24 am: Be happy for your friend, she would be happy for you. Yoyr time will come and who knows maybe when its turn she'll be alone. [ hollaren's advice column | Ask hollaren A Question ]
Babigurl answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 12:12 am: its difficult when you have a reely close friend with a long term boyfriend. you often feel like the third wheel and then assume her boyfriend has taken the place of her best friend. which makes you want to be loved and do cute things with a special guy like they do. first you should probably find out if this kid likes you. maybe i missed something.. but i dont reely understand why your friend would be mad.. but maybe the guy your into is shy and waiting for you to make the first move.
xO- sara [ Babigurl's advice column | Ask Babigurl A Question ]
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