Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 6:57 pm
ok i have this best friend (ill say bf) and well this gurl is gettin in the way of our friend ship like tryin to take my bf away from me everyone comes up to me sayin "sam (the gurl) is lioke tryin to take megan (my bf) away from you" and i say "no duh! we both know!" but yet my bf doesnt do anything she is "pretendin" to be this gurls friend.... what should i do to get this gurl out of the way of my bf' and mines friend ship?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? AdviceMistress answered Thursday January 13 2005, 4:37 pm: i would take this girl "sam" to the side and tell her how you feel. truely and honestly because honestly is the BEST policy. And if you and your friend "megan" continue to have problems with her then you both confront her and tell her how you feel. it also seems to me that she wants to be apart of your friendship and not break it up. maybe she wants to be your and "megans" friend. just be nice when you confront and don't make her feel inferior! good luck!
nijadsbaby answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 8:40 pm: I'm sorry but you sound kind of selfish. Its not to much of a trouble to "share" a friend. Once you are best friends with someone then its not like they become yours and only yours. Heck my best friend has other friends, some of which she has known longer than me and some where she seems closer to them than me. But it doesnt bother me. The fact of the matter is that she is your best friend no matter what, no one can "steal" her. [ nijadsbaby's advice column | Ask nijadsbaby A Question ]
GoTyOuRbAcK answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 7:50 pm: Well...if she id getting on your nerves that bad well you should go up to her tell her the truth. Say that: Megan is just pretending to be your friend and you are pissing me off. I know you are trying to seperate us but it's not gunna happen honey. Ok? : You know, something like that! Tell me how it goes!
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