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hi, i dont know if anyone remembers this but i wrote a little while back about a friend whos father had brain cancer, and he had a major surgery on the 1st day of school (september 2nd or so), the doctors werent sure if he would surive or not, my friend wasnt sure what to do. whether to go with his parents or go to school, because he hates to see his father in the hospital and all. so he came to me the night before. I told him no matter what he does his father will always love him and always be proud of him. he told me that i was scaring him like his father was, since right before i said that so did his father. I said i was sry and ill always support in anything. I know they went on vaca the week be4 so he got to spend time with him. then he had his 14th birthday in november. christmas and the new year. yeah well on monday my friend whos his gf said he wouldnt be in all week and she wouldnt say why and well last night my other friend asked me if i heard wat happened to him. i said no and that all i knew was that he wasnt gonna be in school all we, it turns out this pasted sunday his father had pasted :'-(. I dont know wat to do or how to support him, when he comes back to school next week. please help
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i had a friend thats cuzin dead at the age of 13 ..like 3 months ago..he didn't show up for school for 2 weeks .......when he came back i huged him and sayed everything is goin to be ok .......i saw a tear or to from his eyes ....it was sad maded me want to cry .....the advice i'm giving u .......talk to him ..support him .......it makes a differences because u were there for him
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just be there for him....losing a loved one, especially one of your parents, is a really hard thing. he'll need all the support he can get. all you need to do is let him know that you are there for him. don't smother him because that won't help, just be there if he needs someone to talk to. hope i helped, later,
Kat
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Aw, that's so sad. What you need to do is either tell him or write in a note, that you'll ALWAYS be there for him if he wants to talk. People deal with this differently. Some want to talk about it and others don't. If he doesn't want to talk about it, just tell him that you're here and listening whenever he needs you. There's not much else you can do, you can't bring his father back. What would be really nice would be if you got him a nice card with a little note in it, because he'll know you care and that will make him feel better. Maybe get a big group of friends and make him a GIGANTIC card with little notes from everyone. That would sooo cute. Good luck to you and your friend.
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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