ok well im goin out with this guy we've been together for..about 5 months well anyways just recently my mom found out that he use to do weed, got introuble with the cops for jacking cigars, probation..the list goes on. and my HAIR STYLIST! told her this. so..my mom doesn't want us together..which isn't the thing that bugs me..cuz i kinda miss being single..the thing that bugs me is i dont want him to think this is just a stupid excuse and i dont want him to get all bitchy about it with me..we alreadt fought about this and i got pissed cause i stuck up for him and got in trouble with my mom..also now my mom thinks I do drugs and stuff..which i dont. this sucks..my bfs like one of my bestfriends and i dont wanna lose him as a friend and i def. dont wanna lose my moms trust over somthing i didn't do..i dont know i need advice thanks.
evilenterprisesinc answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 9:23 am: start doing weed.. if she's going to blame you for something you might as well do it.. you know.. double jeopardy.. otherwise stop seeing the guy.. you may love him.. but he aint worth it if he does drugs and gets introuble with cops.. youll have 15kids with him then hell go to jail and you will end up on the streets find a real guy.. seriously! [ evilenterprisesinc's advice column | Ask evilenterprisesinc A Question ]
icey0990 answered Monday January 3 2005, 9:21 pm: If he thinks what your saying is an excuse have HIM talk to your mom. Maybe your guy needs to chill out for a couple days and calm down. He needs to realize you stuck up for him and you suffered the consequence because now your mom thinks U do drugs. I would write him a note maybe. it might sound middle schoolish but writing a note gives you a chance to get all your feelings out without him interrupting you or getting you pissed. As for your mom, tell her to pleease trust you! Even tell her she can bring you to the hospitol for a drug test. Tell her your not into that crap and you need her to trust you.
Hope i helped
melissa [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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