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Feelings...
I've been talking to this one guy named Andy for a few weeks. And he really likes me and I just don't really want a boyfriend right now and he knows that. I mean I really like him and all. But then lastnight I went with my friend to a party at her church and I met this guy named Justin...and we like clicked. I mean we started talking at like 2 and didn't stop until like 5. I really like him now...like when I was with him I was getting those little butterfly feelings and I just felt all happy and stuff. And I realized...I don't feel that way around Andy. I mean I'm not going to go out with Justin right now b/c I don't know him very well....but what do I do about Andy? thanks...
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Well my advise is to talk to Andy and just talk to him about being good friends... nothings wrong with that. If he goes along with that, wait till your ready to have a b/f and take it slowly. Hope I helped.
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it's best to just be straight up. Tell andy that you're sorry, but you just don't like him. You should tell him from the start so that he won't get his hopes up. But to make him feel good tell him you still want to be friends, and that he's been a really good friend to you. Lay it on him easy. Who knows, you might start to like him one day. About Justin, it seems like you really do like him. Like you said, get to know him frist. Then decide if you still want to go out with him. Hope everything works out!:)
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Well just sey u want to be freinds right now, so he knows that, and dosent like wait uo for youn then get hurt, you just met this other guyat the party though so if you are going to make ne like any like moves torards him make sure you get to know him alitle better and stuff!
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Keep talking to andy also, just because you like justin more doesnt mean you cant talk and hang out with andy too. Even if you and justin do have a relationship in the future, you can still talk and hang out with andy. Theres no rule saying you cant talk to someone just because you like someone more.
Hope i helped?
-melissa
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Well i think that you should tell Andy, that you know that he likes you but you don't feel the same way about him. You're glad being friends. I mean if I had a friend that i could talk to about anything and he was a guy I woulnt go out with him because i have seen way to many times that when i guy and girl break up they stop talking to each other and they are enemies.. and i dont want that to happen to you andy. Now that you dont have to worry about andy, i would try talking to that guy a couple more times and see if you still get the butterflies.. if you do. i would say ask him out :) hope i helped!
~ Becki ~
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