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my bf
my boyfriend told people he dumped me even though he didnt and we sorta went to far one day n we did it it felt good i guess but it wasnt mi first time the thing iz wuz he just using me but he neva told me it was over so technically were still going out but the people he "told" hate me and they know that were hella close n sexually active but im scared that hes going to break up with me like rite after we had sex and i realli dont know what to do i was cryin all day because i thought he was cheating on me but i told him a lot of personal stuff and i realli like him alot i kno itz cheesey 2 cry bc mi bf wuz supposivly cheating on me but i cant help it were thos ppl he told really telling me tha truth? was he realli using me? im realli confused n i kno if i ask him hez guna act all sweet n tell me it wuz all liez n try 2 get in2 mi pantz agen
please help
signed
CONFUSED
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Listen to your conscience. It's always right. If you think he's cheating on you or using you, then he might be. Try talking to him about it and see what he says. Just know that if he is using and you ask him that, he might say he isn't. Just be careful, you don't want to get hurt. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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First off, please learn to use correct punctuation. That was a very long and freaking hard to read sentence. But, if you're worried that he's just using you and will break up with you after you have sex, most likely you're right. Intuition is right most of the time. My advice would be to find someone who's better for you and who'll appreciate you for you, not for sex. It does sound like he's using you. You'd be doing yourself a favor by dumping your bf and find someone who's really there for you, you know?
JyNxiE
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Now, I usually just answer questions without commenting on the condition of the question itself but... OH MY GOD GIRL, ITS ALMOST ALL ONE SENTENCE! Seriously sometimes it also pays to put a frickin' comma or full stop. Sometimes its also an idea to spell things vaguely right (why is it easier to type wuz instead of was or mi instead of my?) because reading this crap is a test of anyones patience. Beleive it or not I would still have tried to help, but I dont understand the question.
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If he's telling people you guys are not together then you're not. Don't be acting all desperate like you still are. I know its messed up that he used you but you're just gonna have to be strong and learn from it. But if you really think there's a chance with him then you are gonna have to talk to him. If you know him well enough you will know if he's sweet talking you.
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