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his name is ryan and i have a little thing for him. he has a huge thing for me & he's really truly a nice guy & smart. but i'm scared that if i finally do say yes to him... (he's been asking me out for a while now) that it wont be as great as my last relationship.i'm scared that me & him won't have much to talk about and then i'm just gonna have a hard time breaking up with him..and i dont wanna end up in a mess like that all over again!...and plus i still have a thing for my ex who obviously still has a thing for me...but i dont think me & him will be hooking up anytime soon since he has a girlfirend & he thinks i dont care about him anymore...
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You need to tell him that you want to be with him . Don't let past relationships determine your future relationships, and don't worry about how hard it'll be to break up with someone . You'll do that only when it's in need of a break up . You're pondering too hard and that's okay . I think that you two will do great . All you have to do is believe and except that whatever happens just happens . And that it's meant to be . Well have a nice day.
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You really have to think about who you really want to be with. Do you think you want to go out with ryan just because he fancies you and your ex has a new girlfriend? Don't go out with him if you are not sure but spend more time with him and work out if it is him you really want. He obviously really likes you and therefore will be prepared to wait if you tell him that you aren't ready.All relationships are different and get be great in different ways. If you do end up going out with Ryan it must be for the right reasons. If you want to get back with your ex perhaps you should let him know how you feel in private but say you dont want to get in the way of him in his girlfriend if he now doesn't feel the same way. Many men o out with someone on the rebound as it helps them get over you faster.
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your previous relationship, you actually liked him a lot. that isn't bad, but that means he raised your standards for every other relationship. if this new guy is into you, and your not sure, dont take the chance of lowering ur standards. don't ever lower you standards. i saw you stay single until you figure stuff out; and if your ex has a girlfriend.. don't be stupid and mess that up. he might have been doing that to you
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