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wat should i do
ok well my best friend is goin out w/ a boy ive nown 8 years and every time he comes over we make out and other stuff and wen he asks for it i give it to him...and i dont want to give that up but she keeps gettin mad at me??but me and him have gone out wen we were younger and all that jiz..its just ive only nown her for a year and ive nown him my whole life and i like him alot..but she goes out w/ him wen she nos i dont like it wen she does so i dont no wat to do.can u give me some advice plz????????ty..
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forget your friend..as long as youre gettin some, why spoil a good thing?
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You're having sex with your best friend's boyfriend??? First of all... that's not ok. Even if you have a past with this guy... right now he is hers, and you shouldn't do things with him. I can understand why your friend gets mad. how would you feel if you were going out with this guy, and you found out that they were doing things together? i think it would hurt. My advice would be to stop what you're doing with this guy.. it is not worth losing your friendship over. and Also.... stop hanging out with this guy!he's obviously not a very good guy, because he's doing stuff with someone who isnt his Girlfriend... sounds like he's a playa to me, and your friend is getting played. Maybe your friend does try to make you jealous. I'd show her you don't care. Move on from this guy, you dont need him. If you really like him a lot, and you just can't move on, then i would suggest talking to this guy. Tell him you really like him, but you don't want to hurt your friend. Tell that he needs to break up with your friend, or the make out sessions are going to come to a stop. This may casue conflict with your friend though. If she gets upset if he dumps her, just explain to her about the history of you and this guy. If he stills wants to be with her, than forget him! Sorry i'm being so brutal, but u need to face the facts my dear! hope i helped!
~Kayla
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well, you need to talk to your friend. not the guy, you're girl friend. and i'd suggest for the time to stop making out with her bf, because that's just gonna make things harder. but i can see where you'd be upset, specially because you said she knows you didn't want her to go out with him in the first place. you really have to talk to her tho, and tell her that you're hurt that she didn't respect your feelings. but be prepared for her to be hurt that you made out with her boyfriend. it's going to be hard for you guys to come to a conclusion, but i think if you sit down and talk about it, you should be fine, if you guys really are best friends. i hope this helped, and good luck!
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what your doing is wrong..and i think you know that. I understand that you like this guy..but how bout you sit down with him and talk to him about maybe breaking it off with this girl. Dont push him into it..just suggest it and see what he thinks..if hes not being faithful to her..then he might consider the idea, right? A friend is a friend..regardless of how long or how close you guys are. You dont wanna see her hurt do you? Maybe think about stopping the cheating with him....wait til they break up..it seems like their relationship isnt so hot..so they'll probably end it soon anyway. Its all up to you..my advice is just to think about what i said
best of luck
-melissa
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