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bf's dad
(btw, we're 15, hes almost 16)ok well my bf and i have been going out for 14 months and recently his mom went to arazona to live and he moved in with his dad. lets call him..."Bob". ok so bob's dad doesnt like me very much. and we've had a long-distance relationship pretty much. and i never really got to see bob. well now his dad says that we're getting too serious and now he can only sleep over for one night ever OTHER weekend. like this wasnt hard enough. now i'll bairly get to see him. i used to cut too and bob is the only reason i stopped. now if his dad takes him away from me...i wont be able to handle things much anymore and i'll start doing it again. i really dont want to. but its just to much. so bob's dad is going to call my parents and talk about it (my parents were together since they were 15&16) but bob's dad is really stubborn. i dont know what to do. i really love "bob" and we really want to be together. i really dont want to lose him...but i dont know what to do...
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Hey, don't feel so preusered... I know what its like going out with some1 for so long and not being able to see them often (becase thats exactly what happened to me) But..... since you too have been going out for so long.. you guys are probably really close. Now- i bet you guys love eachother so much... which means that this is a good thing- since you too don't get to see eachother so much... WHen you DO see eachother, it will be twice as special! trust me... it can be a good thing definitly. But honey don't cut yourself because you can be better than that.. hangout with your friends and do the things you like to do and then when you see your boyfriend- it will be SO special and fun! good luck with your bf's dad... somtimes we can't really do anything about parents haha... WEll best of luck :D hope i helped
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you just wrote me back...don't worry. i'm telling you that i'm 100% sure that things will work out. don't cut yourself over a guy that you've been dating for as long as you have. a lot of people kill themselves every year just because of a relationship not working out. there is a reason why this is happening. just turn back! good luck
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Yeah, sometimes parents suck (but not always...). DO what you feel is best. Personally, I used to cut. But I didn't see it as a bad thing. It made ME feel good (I don't know if it makes you feel good...) Don't let his dad fuck up what you've got going for you. Explain to your mom and dad about your situation. They should understand...
Of that doesn't work, you and your boyfriend should stay friends (or at least tell his dad that you're just friends... ;) )
Best of luck to you! :)
~Laish
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Hey well dont let his dad get in tha way of yall if his dad is bein this stuborn then let him think it isnt bothering u jus go on with your life and if he does take him away make a effort to become more intemint that way he knos his lil plan didnt work let him kno theres is nuffin he can do to seperate yall! dont loose him if you really love him!
Blayre
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