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I don't know weither to move on or stick around?
Ok im a 14 year old teenage girl. Im so in love w. this kid that ive known for 3 years. We've been together off and on for the past 2 years, but hes put me through so much pain . But now the only time he talks to me is when he doesn't have a girlfriend or there arguing. A weekend before thanksgiving (when him nd his girlfriend had been broken up for 2 months) he told me he loved me nd he was sorry for all the pain he had put me through and he told me i was the only one he wanted to be with. He said he was glad he had someone that loved him nd always stuck by his side whenever he needed someone. We hung out for 2 weeks, talked all the time on the phone, told each other we loved each other ( which really i thought we did, i mean i really do love him) but then he stopped calling, and when i saw him he acted like nothing happened. Now we got into the biggest arguement nd he's back together w. his girlfriend. I love this kid so much - i would do anything for him nd he knows that. He knows he's the only thing on my mind 24/7. What should i do, should i give it time nd just let things work themselves out or should i just move on?? Please help !!!
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I know that this is killing you and that your confused hurt and all of that and trust me I know it hurts because my ex did the same thing to me. Even if you don't believe it (which you probublly do, you sound like a smart girl) I've been there snd done all that, even got a postcard to prove it. Move on, find someone else... even if it's a rebond guy thats just getting you over this other guy. It took me almost 6 months to get over my guy and it SUCKED! but when I got a new guy I started to fall in love with him and pushed the other guy out of my mind. Just find a really close guy friend and start thinking about him, even if it's just friendly thoughts try it. It just might work. Hope this all works out for you, be strong you'll get through it and you deserve much better!
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ok well a lot of guys do tell s all this stuff like "i love you" and just everything like that. don't fall for it. don't tell a guy how you feel about them because it will scare them away. its like hunting...guys always want to go after the prey...to guys we are like the prey. don't tell a guy how you feel. if you really think your in love with him...let him follow you. don't just try to do everything you can to get with him cause then it will lead to unless if it has already come that far. just act like it doesn't bother you and see what happens next! good luck
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You’ve got to start moving on. Its no good for you to keep your self in this situation, it must be hell for you. He might come along and make you happy for two weeks, a month or whatever but he certainly won’t make you happy long term and you know that. He knows your always going to be their when he wants to use you and you’re just letting it happen. You’ve got to take control and move on because you deserve a hell of a lot better than that. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying just forget about him like it’ll be easy – it won’t be but if you lay on the floor like a doormat their will be people who are quite happy to walk all over you.
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you need to act like this guy doesnt bother you and go have fun with other people. if he knows you worry about him all the time then hes gonna keep going back to you after his other relationships dont work , and then forget about you when another girl comes along. i know how hard it is to move on because i have guy probs right now too but hang in there and dont let him see that uu really like him and would take him back, playin hard to get really works! good luck!
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you need to talk to him...even if he doesnt want to...because if it really is over with you and him, then it will be easier for you to move on...
hope this helps and good luck!!
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