I have two questions. It might get a little confusing because I myself am confused. I was at my boyfriends house yesterday and we started doing sexual things and we had sex. The thing is, I'm not sure if you'd consider it to be having sex. We only were doing it for five minutes tops and neither of us "finished" (I didn't have an orgasm and he didn't cum) So my first question was if you would consider that to be sex. The second part of my question is that the first minute or so, he did not have a condom on but I do know that you can get pregnant off of precum. I know there is a certain time where you are least fertile around the time of your period. I had my period the week BEFORE we did that. Someone had told me that you are most fertile the week after you have your period and then another person said that it was the week before. Could someone clear that up for me? I really need some answers. Thank you SO much if you can help! And please, do not say that you "think" that this is when you are least fertile, I need a straight answer. Thank you again.
Now, about fertility. Do you keep track of your period? Start circling the dates you have it on a calender. The first day you get it is day 1.
The rest of what I'm saying is totally and completely based on an imaginary, ideal woman, but it might help:
If your period is 28 days long, then you will ovulate around day 14. Other signs you are ovulating include increased body temperature and slightly different discharge, or even mild cramps.
You are most fertile around this time - the days before, during, and after ovulation are Red Hot Pregnancy Days. Figure out when your last period was, start counting the days, and see where you fall.
xplisit15 answered Monday November 29 2004, 5:51 pm: Yep, thats sex hun. And the second part, the most fertile time is 14-17 days after your period as far as i can remember, but every girl is different. I guess its about 2-2 1/2 weeks after the last period. Anyways its less likely that your pregnant but its still possible. I say your chances of being pregnant are slim. [ xplisit15's advice column | Ask xplisit15 A Question ]
sunshine1030 answered Monday November 29 2004, 5:26 pm: regardless of whether or not you two had orgasms, it is still considered sex. and you are most fertile in the middle of your cycle, so about 2 weeks before/after your period, and least fertile right after your period. so if you had it the week before, and since he didn't cum, you should be fine. just be sure that next time you use a condom, so you won't have to worry! hope this helped! [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
xoxhayley answered Monday November 29 2004, 5:17 pm: Hey! Yes it is sex.... and to answer your second question- Yes you can get pregnant, so be careful ! Be sure to use protection next time... and good luck! :D [ xoxhayley's advice column | Ask xoxhayley A Question ]
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