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Perfessioanl liar
Hey sarah it Beccers_boo's.
My ex and i wer pretty good friends... but i keep hearing about all these lies he told me. He tells other people everything about our relationship i dont know. When my friend told me (they ALL knew) i got really upset and they just got upset at me... liek i had done something wrong!! LAter they said they thought i was mad at them... btu thats not hte point.
He also told me he broke up with me becuase he felt guilty becuase we wasnt allowed to dat eyet. well that turnd out to be a lie and THEN he told me that He wasnt goign to date anyone until he was 18. Well about 1month latr he is dating my good friend. (she asked me AFTER they had started dating !!!)
Well anyways... he had also dated this girl that he always flirted with when WE were dating. He is a jerk!!!! He totaly like flirts with his new girlfriend ( my friend ) in front of me. I think to make me jealous. Its ticks me off.
This wsa the SHORT version. Now he says he is gooing to turn himself in to his parents and will have to go to military school in virginia. He is way over dramatic. I cnt stand him!!!!! When ever i try to explain this to my friend who is dating him she just says "i know already he read your MSN conversations to me. He told me eveerything that went on in your realtion ship!!" that just makes me want to punch her!!!! She acts as if everythign he did was my fault!! Like i am so stupid and i dont know anything.
i dont know what ot do about any of this. please help me sarah!! Your good at helping people!
-beccers_boo
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hey babe! im sorry bout ur situation-sounds like there's a reason this guy is your ex. Honestly from what you told me it sounds like you are better off without him. I wouldn't want to be with someone who 1) lies to me 2) uses my friends to make me jealous. Since im assuming you love your friend just suck it up grin it and bear it for her sake. Tell her you understand that he is her new boyfriend but you'd appreciate it if she wouldn't talk about him around you. You need to get over this guy so you can move on with your life and find a guy who is better deserving of YOU. As for his lying, its probably his way of covering up his own issues and if he lied to you i have no doubt in my mind that he will lie to his new gf too. Just be patient with her because i bet he will screw things up with her too and just be there for your friend. Keep me updated on the situation and let me know how things go-if anything comes up, u know how to reach me-xoxoxox sar
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