Question Posted Thursday November 25 2004, 1:11 am
hi..okay i had asked this guy i liked out to do something with me..before this we hadnt' rally talked too much but he sorta followed me a little at lunch and i cud tell and it was pretty cute..ppl told me that he prolly likes m n stuff so wen i asked him he sed he didnt know if he cud make it to where we were going..then on monday (i has asked on friday)he completely ignored me and on tuestday too..What do u think this means? I was getting a good vibe from him before and now he just randomly started to ignore me..cud he b nervous, or maybe he just stopped liking me..thanks a bunch you guys.
cutebrunette answered Thursday November 25 2004, 6:57 pm: i think he is afraid you might ask him out. Not that its a bad thing but i think he is just nervous. try talking to him. If he keeps doing it just give him a few days.
bumdinger27 answered Thursday November 25 2004, 5:43 pm: You could try and talk to him and address him on him being different, ask if something is wrong or if he is being just shy ? If he doesnt give you a straight out answer just forget about him, cause if he is gonna ignore you and be jerk then he isn't worth your time! [ bumdinger27's advice column | Ask bumdinger27 A Question ]
DevilChild answered Thursday November 25 2004, 12:39 pm: maybe hes just ashamed of liking u. maybe he is nervous but u should talk to him and be friends then ull know him more and hell know u too it always works with me. write him a note and just be normal and dont ask anythign of u or him liking each other im sorry if htis is no help to u [ DevilChild's advice column | Ask DevilChild A Question ]
c_assi_e_x_12 answered Thursday November 25 2004, 10:06 am: The best answer for this is that he is nervous. He's probably afraid of a relationship with anyone. Maybe he's had bad realationships before. Just give him some time, he'll come around.
xxxxxx answered Thursday November 25 2004, 8:21 am: im gonna be honest with you, and dont take offence. he probably just liked you as a friend, and it was awkward for you to ask him out to do something and he might not have wanted to because he might not like you like that. now he might be avoiding you for fear that you might ask him out again and he'd have to think of an excuse not to. OR he could really like you alot and he thinks you might ask him out again and he's shy and nervous. as for what to do? just leave it be. if he doesnt follow you, dont follow him. if he doesnt talk to you, dont talk to him. time will pass eventually and just wait it out! [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
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