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im really worried
i posted a question a couple weeks ago... and thanx to everybody that answered it... ok so here's another one for ya'll... so my last question was about me kissing another guy and do u think my boyfriend would break up with me... and how do i talk to him about it... well we talked and we are still together (yay!) so ne way... another boy problem question.... about ben... ok, i really really really like ben and he is the first boyfriend that i have had that i really truly like... but for some reason i cant get this paranoid idea outta my head that he is going to dump me... i think it's because this is my first real boyfriend and i am worried im gonna mess it up but i dont kno... this is really unusual for me because i am really a live by the moment-dont over think it kinda person... so i guess the question is... how can i stop worrying? i dont kno y this happening tho... he is really sweet to me and always says happy 1 week annaversary! and just stupid cutsie stuff like that... he treats my really well... and i mean... he told me i was the first girlfriend he really truly liked since his first.... i really dont want to get hurt... so i guess if u understand this at all... please help... lol...
...claire
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well i always think my boyfriend is going to leave me or not want me anymore. or possibly cheat on me.. i always think it but in reality i know it won't happen. i just always think of what could happen (whether it's negative or not). the only thing i can say is try to think positive when you think of the negative. try to think i know he won't dump me. he likes me too much. or he does this nice thing for me,, whyyy would he dump me?
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Aw!!! Dont worry, you are just thinking that because you really do care a lot about him. And the idea of loosing him is worrying you. As far as getting rid of that feeling, either talk it out with him and tell him how much your really like him and how glad you are that you are going out and how you hope to stay together awhile. Or just chill out, because its all in your head. Hope i helped and good luck :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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okay tell him how you feel about him and ask him if he feels the same. Don't make him think your mad at him and don't make him think your "not good enough". Go to him calmly, honestly, and with confidence and just spill it.
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my brother says ask him and jus let it all out. he says that guys like to kno wuts on yur mind and if he really likes you, then he would understand your question with respect.
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Ok you like your boyf so just say to him how you feel telll him your scared that he's gonna dump you and tell him why your scared he'll undastand you just need 2 tlk 2 him
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Hun, just relax!! If you are really paranoid, then I think you should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and your fears. I'm sure you will feel alot better after you talk to him. Try it and if you could, email me back and tell me how it went??? Hope I have been of some help!!!
~Candy the Wiccan
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