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ugh... boys ...
OMG where do i begin... well theres this guy at school that i really really like, and everyone thinks that we'll be a perfect couple if we ever went out-- he likes the same things i like, we make each other laugh all the time, and we have a really good friendship. So i ask him to homecoming one day and he says "um.. give me a day to think about it." i thought that was a reasonable answer, so i gave him a day (actually it was more than a day, but oh well). Then, before i ask him again, i find out that he really likes this other girl in our grade (who will remain nameless) and hes waiting 4 the right moment to ask her to homecoming. so i got my heart broken (who hasent) and blah blah. (If ur wondering, he didnt even ask the other girl out, he was too shy) we didnt go to Homecoming together, but we saw each other there and we hung out together. Ever since then, our friendship has grown-- we talk on the phone a lot and joke around more and ive been thinkin that maybe he might like me... even though i ask myself every day how i could be better, like the girl he likes, so that he could like me. And then once at lunch, my friend goes over to this guy and asks him if he would ever go out with me (i think by this point he had to know i really like him). and he says no.. we're just good friends with not too many benefits. i went home heartbroken that day (again). But deep in my mind, i'm always thinking how im not good enough for him- not pretty enough, not speacial enough, etc. and i always compare myself to the girl he likes (who just happens to be the most popular girl in da 8th grade). i like him so much... and now i hate myself so much ...
HELP ME
THANX,
Aida
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okay nobody will ever be better than you...just diffrent than you. And if you like a guy that likes someone else then you dont need him. Dont ever compare yourself to someone. If he honestly likes her more than he likes you then he wouldve asked her out. Him being "too shy" is most likely just an excuse but he doesnt know it yet. If yall just hang out longer and you let him know that you like him without comming on to strong, he will mostlikely get the message and he will probably start liking you back. Just give it a while and he will come to his sences. Also a friendship is much more important to a guy than a grilfriend is even if they dont show it. So maybe yall just being friends will be better for you in the long run. Because friendships never end but relationships do. Find yourself a boyfriend and you will get over your guy friend. Just remember guys value friendships more than relationships
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON
p.s. i asked a few guys what they like more friendships or relationships and they all said friendships so this did come from a reliable source.!
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