Hi my name is Allison and im 14 years old and i love to shop go to movies and just hang out with my friends. PICTURES COMMING SOON My best frineds are Hannah, Meredith, and Amanda!
Sitting there with an empty canvass
Waiting for a picture to appear
Then suddenly you see a rose
But then it smears
It wont stop growing
Suddenly you realize that your painting with a blade
And your canvass is your wrist
And thats not a rose
Its all the stress and tears that you hold inside hoping that maybe you can still fit in with the crowd.
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Written by and about one of my best friends!
Okay that is really weird and like totally depressing and its really kinda scary...but if you need help i will always be there for you!
IM me at Sour Sweetie 25
E-mail me at TragicLullaby92@aol.com
E-mail: TragicLullaby92@aol.com
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Age: 14
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Member Since: August 3, 2004
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OMG where do i begin... well theres this guy at school that i really really like, and everyone thinks that we'll be a perfect couple if we ever went out-- he likes the same things i like, we make each other laugh all the time, and we have a really good friendship. So i ask him to homecoming one day and he says "um.. give me a day to think about it." i thought that was a reasonable answer, so i gave him a day (actually it was more than a day, but oh well). Then, before i ask him again, i find out that he really likes this other girl in our grade (who will remain nameless) and hes waiting 4 the right moment to ask her to homecoming. so i got my heart broken (who hasent) and blah blah. (If ur wondering, he didnt even ask the other girl out, he was too shy) we didnt go to Homecoming together, but we saw each other there and we hung out together. Ever since then, our friendship has grown-- we talk on the phone a lot and joke around more and ive been thinkin that maybe he might like me... even though i ask myself every day how i could be better, like the girl he likes, so that he could like me. And then once at lunch, my friend goes over to this guy and asks him if he would ever go out with me (i think by this point he had to know i really like him). and he says no.. we're just good friends with not too many benefits. i went home heartbroken that day (again). But deep in my mind, i'm always thinking how im not good enough for him- not pretty enough, not speacial enough, etc. and i always compare myself to the girl he likes (who just happens to be the most popular girl in da 8th grade). i like him so much... and now i hate myself so much ...
HELP ME
THANX,
Aida (link)
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okay nobody will ever be better than you...just diffrent than you. And if you like a guy that likes someone else then you dont need him. Dont ever compare yourself to someone. If he honestly likes her more than he likes you then he wouldve asked her out. Him being "too shy" is most likely just an excuse but he doesnt know it yet. If yall just hang out longer and you let him know that you like him without comming on to strong, he will mostlikely get the message and he will probably start liking you back. Just give it a while and he will come to his sences. Also a friendship is much more important to a guy than a grilfriend is even if they dont show it. So maybe yall just being friends will be better for you in the long run. Because friendships never end but relationships do. Find yourself a boyfriend and you will get over your guy friend. Just remember guys value friendships more than relationships
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON
p.s. i asked a few guys what they like more friendships or relationships and they all said friendships so this did come from a reliable source.!
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hey.... ill use fake names to make it easier to understand.. in 6th grade me ashley and courtney were best friends. i liked courtney more then ashley. but then courtney moved to houston now she has a new best friend and i guess you can say that im really really jealous to her. and now i feel like courtney likes her new friend and ashley more then me. ive been trying sooo hard to keep our friendship going but its been really hard because i havent seen her in almost a year... and i guess you could say that i want her all to myself and that im selfish because i am... but i dont want her to love any other friend as much as she does me WHAT DO I DO??? should i just forget about her and find new friendS and give up on her?? im sick of thinking about it all the time and im sick of crying about all of it!! PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
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Hey well if she lives in a diffrent city then she is of course gonna have other best friends but that doesnt mean she doesnt still consider you one of her best friends. Maybe you should plan a trip up there to strengthen your relationship. Also you may think your crying because of her new best friend but you might just be crying because you miss her. Try talking to her more and maybe if you feel confortable about it try confronting her about it. But i really think a trip up there would really help things...also when your up there maybe you should meet her "new best friend" and maybe you wont hate her as much...what do you know yall might even become friends. Just try talking more
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON
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hey i have a problem....i have a friend who i really like and i want her to go out with me so i asked her and she talked to me about it for a while and she came to the idea of being friends with benefits. is this a good idea? i dont want to ruin the relation ship we allready have so i dont know what to do.Thanks(age 15,male) (link)
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Well if you talked to her about it and she just wants to be friends with bennifets dont push it! Like dont keep talking to her about going out with you cuz then she might get annoyed. I think that being friens with benniffets is the best anwser because its what she wants to do! After yall have been friends with bennifets for a while then she might start liking you. But in the long run friends with benniffets wont ruin yalls relation ship unless you push it.
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON
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hey allison...
it's like the 5th day back to school, and already i'm upset.
the guys in my grade (if you can even call them guys... eww!) all are weird and butt-ugly, and to draw attention away from themselves, they pick on someone else.
namely, me.
i don't care, dirt off my shoulder, but still it gets annoying, so i don't really hang out with the 8th grade dudes.
instead, i set my sights higher.
the freshman and sophomore dudes, and unlike the little boys in my grade, they are HOTT and they like me... A LOT.
so i hang out (cough cough flirt) with them all the time... problem is, i'm the only girl in my grade that does.
so all of the people in my grade say that i'm a slut.
i say that i'm doing the smart thing... hanging out with the beautiful, nice people.
but i still have to endure the entire (hellish) school year with the 8th graders, and so it really wouldn't be a good idea for me to have a reputation as a slut. especially this early into the school year, too.
so what should i do? you've already given me kickass advice before, so naturally i turned here first.
thanx soo much and tons of the good stuff,
~meredith...
oops, i'm not supposed to put my name... oh wth. (link)
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haha hey sorry i didnt anwser sooner! I think you should do what ever is more FUN at this age. Just keep trying to prove to your 8th grade piers that you arent a slut, just dont do anything to make them believe that. They are probably just jealous cuz your so pretty, and because they want to b the ones getting all the attention from the older hott guys! Also when ur around the 8th graders dont talk about your other friends, because then if you dont tell them anything then they wont have a reason to call you a slut. But i'm telling you they're just jealous! Also i know a year is along time but next year you will be at school with "THE SHARKS", you have to send me a pic of them and you haha! But like i said if you dont talk about your other friends then they wont have any reason to call you a slut and then they will stop, if not i will come down and kick theyre asses. When you talk about your older friends they might think your trying to brag even though your not, its like the telephone game, you tell someone about your "friends" and they tell someone else xcept the story changes everytime it goes around, so just watch what you say!
Hope I helped
LOVE ALWAYS
ALLISON, DONT FORGET THE PICTURES
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hey. my friend and i have a website, and someone found out our username and password and changed it. then they put bad stuff all over the website, over me and just putting me down. and it hurts and i dont know what to do. any advice? (link)
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Well you probably dont want anyone to see it so dont advertise it like take the links off of your profiles and stuff. Also keep thinking of people you would know who are mad at you ect. ect. and try to find the person that did it...if you find out who did it and you contact AOL then they kick off whoever ti was!
HOPE I HELPED
ALLiSON
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hey alison wats ^.. well i have this friend he name i am gonna leave anomus. well ive know her 4 like my whole life and and she lies 2 me ALOT! and its getting really annoying and ive tried talking 2 her but its impossible her reply is" i was just joking i joke and kidd alot." and i no thats not the truth. alison, help me idk wat 2 say 2 her and i luv her 2 death but its getting anoying. thx alot babe u rox! lylals and i bet u no who this is! lol! (link)
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Next time she lies to you tell her that you dont appreciate it and if she says i was just joking tell her that when she "jokes" it annoys you or that you dont appreaciate the way she jokes around with you and tell her that you dont like her sense of humor and when she lies to you, you dont find it funny. If that doesnt work try ignoring it but if that doesnt work try giving her a taste of her own medicne and that will probably make her realize what she is putting you through.
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON
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there's this guy that i used to go out with, and he was soo clingy, and he wanted a lot of commitment from me. i got scared, because i'm only 13, and i was already telling someone that i loved them! now, that seemed kind of sweet for a little while, but then, when he started talking about marriage, i freaked, and broke it off with him. now it's like, six months later, and i've been in a lot of other relationships, and all of a sudden he im's me, and is all, i just want to be friends, just im-ing and stuff. i said i was ok with it, cuz if i didn't want to talk to him, i wouldn't have to. but now he's started calling me a lot, and he even drove by my house a couple of times! he's talking about starting a new relationship with me (eww!), and says that he won't take no for an answer. the bad part is, i can't just blow him off, because he's the most mature guy i know, and i can usually talk to him about anything. i don't want to lose a good friend, but i don't want to lose my single status, either. what should i do? oh btw it says to include my age and gender... i'm female, 13...:-) (link)
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This sounds alot harder than it really is but just tell him that yall really need to talk and tell him how you feel ask him how he feels too because remember this "relationship" isnt only happening through your eyes. After yall are done talking try to set him up with someone if he's ready to move on. A new girlfriend will make him happier but also make you happier and yall can persu yalls relationship as friends. During the talk you need to tell him how much he means to you as a friend and that you never want to lose him that way but also dont b too hard on him and dont forget to let him talk. Whether he gets another girlfriend immeadiatly or not wait a while before you get another boyfriend because no matter how good guys play it off once you get another boyfriend it really hurts them especially if its one of his close friends. If yall are as close friendship wise as it sounds then you might want to talk to him about the guy your thinking about dating next. Just remember this might b a tough situation for not only him but you to get through.
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON
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I have this friend and she lied about her age on the website that she made up... how shouold I confront her about it? (link)
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Just start a conversaition about her website and then ease into a conversation about her age and tell her how you feel about it or you could just come right out and say it however you want to handle the situation but it all depends your personality and your friends remember dont hurt her feelings
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON
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okey the boy that i like is soo shy..he is one of the shyest boys that you ever would meet but like only when it comes to girlfriends and doing stuff other than that he is like outgoing and my best frend..he knows i like him and he sed he dno wat hed do if i kised him because he doesnt make the first move..i have thought it over allot and he sed he wudnt pull away so tomorrow morning when he comes to wake me up while were laying in my bed i am going to say "heyy can i show you something" hell sey ya and im going to kiss him not an all out hook up but i am going to kiss him a little bit..and then see wat happens..were best frneds and we flirt all the time we always act like we like eachothr but we are both shy..its just like i cant wait any longer and i am going to make the first move..do you think that its a good idea? what else could i do? (link)
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KISS AWAY JULIET..but if he starts acting acward around you just talk to him about it. Because a kiss isnt worth ruining a friendship over unless its a damn good one!
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ok here it goes: ok..i LOVE to write stories, poems, and song lyrics..like it's fun (the idea of doing it). I try but i just dont get anything good. Any tips?? thAnKs (link)
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Write about things you know or your life experiences remember that songs and poems normally take days at a time and thats if your working on it continuously. Stuff like this isnt supposto come easy and if you really want help with it there are alot of like free tips/classes on the internet that can help you get over your writers block or whatever it is you need help with.
Hope i helped
ALLISON
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ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her (link)
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Well just keep going to scary movies and you might eventually get over them...thats what alot of claustorphobic, sorry cant spell, people do but in the mean time until you get over your fear a scary movie might not b the best dating movie for you try a comedy or something when your with a girl.
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I have a problem with opening up to my friends. I've been a big flirt for like my whole life! I even won biggest flirt at my middle school. But I havent really DONE anything if you know what I mean. Like I kissed but didnt make out. ANYWAYS i have two best friends and they havent done that either! But I have a secret. I actually have gone farther than that a couple times... I'm not comfortable telling them about it because they asked me what happened when "john" came over to my house and I told them NOTHING! so then they would know I lied to them. I dont want any answers saying something like "be honest cuz thats the best" blah blah blah!
I just dont know what to do.... (link)
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Well its your buisness and if you dont want to tell them then you shouldnt. But if you ever to decide to tell them or it "accidently" comes up and they figure out that you have been holding back/lying to them just tell them that its your buisness and that you didnt have to tell them if you didnt want to and they should understand. Also if its still your beliefe that they havent gone farther you never know they could b doing the same thing that you are. So just keep it to yourself if you dont want them to know.
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It's Kevin1986 here with a problem and a couple of questions. I'm friends with two guys,let's say D and J. J used to go out with a girl that I'm very close with,but not dating,although I'd like to. He's pretty obessive,talking about her all the time. Anyway,D used to like her too and they almost went out,but they had a falling out. About a year ago,a new guy,M,goes out with her. I don't care about M and neither do they. J and D want me to tell M that the girl he's going out with is a headtrip because their relationships with her didn't work. I say,it's his bed and it's job to determine whether his girl is crazy or not. I say D and J want me out of the way so they can get her,because I know she'd hate me forever if I tried to break up her relationship. Since I care about her,I want her to be happy even if it's not with me. Your thoughts on this issue? P.S I never really considered telling M this,but I want your opinions on what the real story is. (link)
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I think D and J are just jealous of M and i dont think you should let them drag you into this because then there really wont b a chance for you two. i think you whould (at the right time of course) let her know how you feel about her but dont come on to strong especially if she's still going out with M at the time. But like you said if you and her are very close dont try to ruin her relationship with M otherwise your friendship will most likely b over as well as any chance you have with her.
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Alright heres the situation.. I have this friend, his name is Chris. Anyways, we are like best friends, i guess you could say. We talk alot hang out pretty often. He has a girl friend and i am single. Do you think he likes me if he does the following.. always smiles when he looks at me, always ask who i like, is really nice to me, and hugs me all the time.. i am really confused i dont know if he likes me or is it just a friend thing? Thanks in advance!! -xXoBrianna (link)
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Hey well if you guys are best friends then it could just b a friend thing but if it makes you uncomfortable then you could always talk to him...just remember its not always great to go out with a guy if he is your best friend because if you guys break up for some stupid reason and you're friendship/relation ship is over it wasnt worth it
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Alright, I got hired at 2 different places, and I have to pick 1. I want to take job #2 because I have never done it before. If it doesn't work out, I want to be able to fall back on job #1. But what can I tell job #1 so that I can have a week or 2 to try job #2? I don't want them to know I have another job. Hope this makes sense lol. Thanks! (link)
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dont just go with the job that pays more like some ppl are saying cuz the hours might b longer and the work might b alot more strenuous
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I was wondering that lemon lemonade help your hiar high lighted in the sun. what if putting pink or starwberry? I just wondering.. oh yea and if you do put lemonade your hair sit in sun. you dont just pour in your hair? will surger make hair more yucky and oily? 3rd qestion after all that do have wash it????
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there is a product called SUN IN and you put it in your hair where ever you want highlights and then you sit out in the sun and it will turn your hair lighter...if you want all of your hair lighter then apply the product all over your head. But it is always best to get something like that done professionally because if you do it and you dont like it then your stuck with it for the next 6-10 months depending on how fast your hair grows. Hope i helped...ALLISON
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My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy
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hey sweetie it could be the whole desease thing like everyone is saying but like you said you spend every waking moment together. Well i had that same problem like two years ago you've become so close to that friend that you need some time apart. This may sound totally stupid but its almost like you have become so close that you feel like sisters and your not afraid to fight anymore becuase you know that any fight cant ruin a relation ship as close as the one you have. So take a little time away from each other and then maybe you guys wont fight as much. But give you're self a break and get some new friends and hang out with a varitey of diffrent people.
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