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stalker dude
there's this guy that i used to go out with, and he was soo clingy, and he wanted a lot of commitment from me. i got scared, because i'm only 13, and i was already telling someone that i loved them! now, that seemed kind of sweet for a little while, but then, when he started talking about marriage, i freaked, and broke it off with him. now it's like, six months later, and i've been in a lot of other relationships, and all of a sudden he im's me, and is all, i just want to be friends, just im-ing and stuff. i said i was ok with it, cuz if i didn't want to talk to him, i wouldn't have to. but now he's started calling me a lot, and he even drove by my house a couple of times! he's talking about starting a new relationship with me (eww!), and says that he won't take no for an answer. the bad part is, i can't just blow him off, because he's the most mature guy i know, and i can usually talk to him about anything. i don't want to lose a good friend, but i don't want to lose my single status, either. what should i do? oh btw it says to include my age and gender... i'm female, 13...:-)
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This sounds alot harder than it really is but just tell him that yall really need to talk and tell him how you feel ask him how he feels too because remember this "relationship" isnt only happening through your eyes. After yall are done talking try to set him up with someone if he's ready to move on. A new girlfriend will make him happier but also make you happier and yall can persu yalls relationship as friends. During the talk you need to tell him how much he means to you as a friend and that you never want to lose him that way but also dont b too hard on him and dont forget to let him talk. Whether he gets another girlfriend immeadiatly or not wait a while before you get another boyfriend because no matter how good guys play it off once you get another boyfriend it really hurts them especially if its one of his close friends. If yall are as close friendship wise as it sounds then you might want to talk to him about the guy your thinking about dating next. Just remember this might b a tough situation for not only him but you to get through.
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