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Torn between best friends
At the end of the last school year, one of my best friends (Sarah) got a boyfriend and was always blowing me and our other best friend (Lorraine) off to hang out with her boyfriend. Over the summer they broke up and luckily Sarah's been her old self again, but Lorraine can't let go of the fact that Sarah used to blow us off for her guy. I've forgiven Sarah, but Lorraine hasn't, and now the two of them seem to be fighting over me to "get back at" the other. They're both trying to make plans with me and leave out the other, and it's driving me insane! I want to confront them about this, but how should I go about doing that?
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I had a similar problem a while ago. I think you should talk to (Lorraine) first and ask her why she is being like that. You should tell her that (Sarah)was over being like that. You should also talk to them together and get them to talk to each other without fighting. What happened with me was my friends got in a fight b/c one of my friends bcame popular for a little while and when they ditched her she came back to us. I forgave her b/c I had known her for a long time, but my other friend wouldn't. I reminded them both of how good friends they were and how they really needed each other and I promise you they did apopogize to each other. so talk to them and don't worry you can talk your friend out of being stubborn.
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You and your 2 best friends seem 2 be very close, how about this, got any videos of all u three friends sharing their best times with eachother? try and get your two best friends together in the same room,show them how much fun and good memorys they had with you and eachother with the videos.
Hope it works!!!!!!!!!
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Just say that if they dont want to be friends, fine...but they shouldent drag you into this problem. If they never want to hang out, just hang out with sarah alone and hang out with lorannie alone and tell them not to talk crap about eachother when your with them because you dont want to hear it. If you want them to be friends again, like sweetascandii said..MAKE them talk to eachother and get everything sorted out. Hope everythin works out!
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Hey! I have to deal with this ALOT with two of my friends..but it's for the dumbest things! Anyways..what I do is I go to one of their houses..and we both get online while the other person is online..and I make them talk about it until they finally forgive eachother! Haha sorry thats all I got..Hope I helped a lil though!
<3 ---- Taliaa
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