Ok...there's this kid I like alot. I have for a really long time and we went out about 3-4 times before but now it's been like a year since the last time we dated. Well...he's not exactly the hottest guy in the school but he's popular and everythin,,like he has a great personality n everythin. Well i wanna tell my best friend that I like him again but I'm afraid of her reaction. Beacause she's really into looks and everythin..and not only that she just doesn't like him that much. What should I tell my friend and should I tell this kid I like him again? And if I do tell both of them who should I tell first? Help!
ICE11BLUE answered Friday October 29 2004, 10:35 pm: You need to go ahead and do what you please. At first your friend may not like it or whatever, but if she's a good friend, after some time when she starts seeing how happy he makes you, she'll be happy too. Go ahead and go for it, and give your friend time. [ ICE11BLUE's advice column | Ask ICE11BLUE A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Friday October 29 2004, 10:18 pm: Obviously your friend's oppinion shouldn't matter about someone that she doesn't even like! I would tell this guy how you feel because you sound like you really really like this kid because you went out with him so many times... and try to correct what went wrong from all the break-ups too... I hoped i helped!! :)
Blade answered Friday October 29 2004, 9:53 pm: well first of all your freind's oppinion shouldnt make YOUR decision. Dont let the advice or oppinions from someone who doesnt have to deal with the results make your decision when you have to. but you should ALSO think back on why you and this guy broke up so many times in the first place, because there is definately something there to make you like him enough to go out 3-4 times but there is also something there that keeps you guys breaking up. [ Blade's advice column | Ask Blade A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Friday October 29 2004, 9:46 pm: You should tell the guy that you like him first and if he doesn't like you then well you don't really need to tell your friend.
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