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ex bf's friends wont stop talking
ahh okay me and my ex bf broke up SOOOOOOOOOOO long ago!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! there was a big fight and we havent talked really since. ever since then his friends will NOT stop talking crap about me,calling me a hoe, and spreading soo many rumors about me around school.. my ex doesnt even goto my school nemore cause he graduated, but his cousins and his friends that he doesnt even really talk to nemore keep on talking shit about me...ofcourse i stand up for my self if they ever say nething to my face..ive said endless amount of things back so its not like i dont stand up for myself. ive even tried talking about it with them but they just wont stop...even if i become friends again with my ex bf, they still wouldnt stop..i dont want advice on how to make them stop, but just on how to look past it..i know i shouldnt care about whut other ppl say about me, its just im like a girl who looks at herself with sooo much respect, im the opposite of a slut...but they just keep talking..how do i handle this personally? thanks so much =]
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If you can imagine, in the next few years this will not even matter. You will be living your life! Going off to college getting your degree meeting new people...Fresh. Theese BOYS are not worth your time. Just remember who your real friends are, they know who you are. Possibly no one is even paying attention to what theese boys say because they say so much crap about everyone else anyway there just a waste of everyones time. I hope This helps. Remember to look in the future.
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Those guys are soOo immature!! Just keep on with the perserverance (spell?) you got now and just ignore them! You can also talk to your ex about them harrasing you and all... Since it was sOoO long ago, people should know that it's untrue and that they would blow it off too... I hoped i helped you!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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you know what theyre probably just jealous, and OBVIOUSLY COMPLETELY IMMATURE!! just keep on with that attitude of a certain level of respect for yourself, and dont let those losers change that! u seem like a real down-to-earth girl, and who cares wut idiots like that have to say. since you can see that theyre just bringing up something from the past, then im sure people around you notice it to. eventually, everyone is gonna get sick of hearing them start crap about you when thyere come to complete relization, that its DONE and OVER with. so who cares, let them talk, keep sticking up for urself, and eventually, theyre gonna stop. try to just ignore it. cuz by recognizing it, they will keep doing it. well i hope i helped sumwhat. tell those jerks, they need to get a life, instead of trying to change wut done with in yours! * good luck hun! * L0v3 * brittany *
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Hi Sweetie,
So you've made [eaces with your ex, right? OK, does your ex know his asshole friends and cousins are harrasing you? Maybe it would help if he knew.
His friends/cousins need to know that no matter what happened between your ex and you its between oly HIM AND YOU. (Plus, its in the past.) Even if you cheated on him (I'm not saying you did) or if he cheated on you (I'm not saying he did) and regardless of who broke up with who its none of their business. Have you told them that straight out?
Or you can say "I don't like you and you don't like me. Its cool, we dont have to like each other. But you dont have to talk shit about me cause I don't talk shit about you."
You may want to go to a dean or school counsler to just solve the problems.
I would just say things about them... don't listen to THAT... everyone thinks I'm a bitch :(
I hope those dumbasses leave you alone. Just be a good person and people will see it and they'll end up looking bad. I hope someone has good advice for you. Best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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