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MY FRIends ignoring me
one of my best friends keeps on ignoring me and hanging out with somoene else not that its a problem or anything, but whenever she hangs out with the girl she acts all b****y to me, am i just jelous of her or has she changed, and if she has changed would there be anyway she wont be as b****y to me if i talk to her
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nope sweetie you are not jelouse teh thing is your friend is a BIG HUGE you know what.shes not a real friend let me tell you why.......a real firend will like you and treat you nicely no matter what its obvious she thinks shes so cool cuz shes hanging out with the other girl and thinks shes a pop star lol look sweetie you dont need people like that around you and dont waste your lungs trying to talk to her seriously find other girls that wont be like that later on those girls will mistreat her and she will remmeber what a nice person you were to her.
wish you tons and tons of luck!,
Ms.rOtTeN
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omg! that same thing like JUST happened to me. i don't think you're jealous, you're probably just mad that she just ditched you like *that*! and no one likes a spoiled brat who acts like that, and yes, she probably has changed. and if you try to talk to her and she starts acting like that, then just tell her to stop! that's what i did, and now she's.. 50% better. i hope this helped!
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ok..she is a different person around another friend. hat tells me her new friend is a royal witch.
I would ask her what is up with the new tude and if she does it again...wriie her off until she gets a clue and loses the new friend.
A good friend is the ame person wiht everyone.
Ps had one just like this..found out she was talking behind my back...dropped her like the load she was.
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Oh, that sucks...a lot. I think it happens to a lot of people, and the reasons why this happens varies. Some ideas that I think are that: a.) Your best friend feels like this new girl she's hanging out with is more of a role model, and she wants to act like this girl because she feels like she has to. And if she doesn't she might lose this friend. Or she could possibly be scared of her in a way, so she tries to act similar to her. b.) She's changed. Yes, it's possible that she changed her personality. So this could be why she acts bitchy towards you. c.) This might sound harsh or sad but maybe she got tired of being friends. It happens. But not often does it happen. d.) You could be jealous. If you think this is true, it's not her. You need to accept that she's meeting new people. She has that right and so do you.
Talking to her about this is the key. You can't make your friend be as nice and polite about this as you might be. She could come off as a bitch, but you need to make her hear you out. Explain what she's done that makes you think she's changed. Then ask her if she notices any changes in you. Make sure you give her a chance to say what she needs to say too. She might ease up this way, and take it into importance. Let her know you don't want to lose her as a friend, and that she means a lot to you. Sometimes friendships change, and it's one of the hardest things in the world. Everyone goes through that. I have, and I know how much it hurts. So try to save your friendship now before it's too late. Let her know what you think, because if you don't do nothing about this, chances are nothing will get better. Good luck with everything!!! :D
Love,
Mandee
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