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School Dance
Well see my friend, knows my brothers girlfriends brother and lives by him and all. He's trying to hook us up, but then theirs a dance so he asked if i was going, since i am he told the other kid (brothers girlfriends brother) and he mite go. Since my friend is going (he's a boy, same name as brothers girlfriends brother)I want to go to but is to shy. Only because my parents say im too young to date or think about boys. Im in 7th grade, but he's in a grade younger. Thing that sucks is im shy of boys because of what parents said, They wont let me do anything, go to fair without an adult (did it anyways, went with other friend (girl) and her cousins, n her mom dropped them off. Should I take the risk to not be shy and go to the dance and stuff and like keep it from my parents. OR not do anything be shy to all the boys, not being able to do anything and suffer. And yes i will suffer.
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1. you should NOT sneak out! you'll just get in big trouble! i'd try to work with your parents and let them know that they can trust you! let them know that yur not a lil girl! nad if your peers dont understand then you relli sont need friends who are gonna give you peer presure!
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Yah, you should go. Like if you're shy around them, then you just have to tell yourself theres no reason to by shy! And you could either tell your parents you're going as friends (*like go with a big group of people) or get your brother to talk to them or you could just hide it...but that might not be a good idea because they'll be mad if they find out!
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So, your shelterd. Well, you can try talking to your parents about the dance. Explain that it is one night supervised and that your are mature enough to have a good time with a boy. I just don't think it would be a good idea to try to keep it a secret from them. I know what its like to be shy, but I think that we all will have to face that eventually. I do hope that it goes well for you, and I have faith that you will have a pretty good time.
Lots of luck,
Ann
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