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chosing sides

Question Posted Saturday October 16 2004, 7:48 pm

hey~ i'm 13/f and i have lots of good friends. and recently four of them turned into b/f and g/f and both couples broke up on friday. i no they said they still wanted to be friends but i no it will never be the same, i don't want to chose sides so what should i say if they start asking me to? any help will be apreciated!

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charmed-cherry21 answered Monday October 18 2004, 8:20 pm:
Well my ex boyfriend was one of my best friends and we went out and for a while we weren't that great of friends. It is now almost 2 months later and now we are getting along ALMOST as good as we used to. I broke up with him because I liked someone else who now is my boyfriend, so sometimes things work out for the better. And just tell your friends that you are not going to choose sides, because you like them both equally.


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AdviceMistress answered Monday October 18 2004, 2:00 pm:
tell them ur friends with everyone and that u aren't taking sides and that u wish they could just come to an agreement and just speak to each other as civilized human beings.


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cutiepie011 answered Saturday October 16 2004, 9:34 pm:
you can tell them that you shouldnt have to choose between your friends and i they say anything like you have to this time just tell them that youll find other friends (hoped i helped)

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MaxwellsSilverHammer answered Saturday October 16 2004, 8:12 pm:
You need to try to stay as impartial as possible, don't try and be two-faced to satisfy both sides, because when they find out they will be pretty pissed at you.

You can support them if they are still in the crying 24/7 stage, but if they start saying things like:

"He's such a jackass! I can't believe he did this to me!"

You have to say as little as possible to avoid trouble, nothing opinionated.

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