Question Posted Saturday October 16 2004, 11:48 pm
hey~ i'm 13/f and i have lots of good friends. and recently four of them turned into b/f and g/f and both couples broke up on friday. i no they said they still wanted to be friends but i no it will never be the same, i don't want to chose sides so what should i say if they start asking me to? any help will be apreciated!
AdviceMistress answered Monday October 18 2004, 6:00 pm: tell them ur friends with everyone and that u aren't taking sides and that u wish they could just come to an agreement and just speak to each other as civilized human beings.
MaxwellsSilverHammer answered Sunday October 17 2004, 12:12 am: You need to try to stay as impartial as possible, don't try and be two-faced to satisfy both sides, because when they find out they will be pretty pissed at you.
You can support them if they are still in the crying 24/7 stage, but if they start saying things like:
"He's such a jackass! I can't believe he did this to me!"
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